Great lovers are made, not born.
Men are not inherently selfish. Society has made men insecure about their size, erections, and endurance. We're all robbed of a good sex education. I say, fuck all that bullshit.
I've helped thousands of good men realize their sexual potential and take their lovers to places they've never been before.
Hi, my name is Kenneth Play.
GQ calls me "the world's greatest sex hacker" and Playboy says I'm "a personal trainer for pussy", but I'm also a formerly sexually insecure Asian immigrant with an average-sized cock.
In the last 9 years I've been obsessively deconstructing techniques from world-renowned sex educators, researchers, kinksters, tantra masters, and tested them in thousands of hours of hands-on sessions. I discovered sex hacks that completely transformed my life.
Now I need to share the secrets I've learned. Taking you from insecurity to lasting confidence, from an average to a remarkable lover. I care about you getting results.
Yesterday I had an experience that made me reflect upon how powerful some of your lessons have been. I hooked up with someone who has always intimidated the hell out of me sexually. (So much so that I had never pursued her.) She's very sex-positive and has clearly had a lot of experiences compared to me (I was in a monogamous relationship with my "high school sweetheart" for 10+ years until recently). Afterwards - among other things - she couldn't say enough nice things about how good I was with my hands. She was absolutely glowing. The past six months have been a game-changer and yesterday was just the icing on the cake. The impact of this stuff extends way beyond sex. The positive benefits on intimacy, dating, relationships, confidence, etc. is huge.
Before I came across Kenneth, I had serious performance anxiety, and as a result, I could rarely stay hard, if I ever got hard with a partner. It was life crushing; when previous partners wanted what was only natural, I could rarely step up to the plate. I honestly didn't know what to do. Since watching Kenneth's in-depth videos on what makes a woman tick, and how to do it, I've applied everything he's taught me, and as a result, I've overcome all my anxieties. Not only that, I'm in the happiest and healthiest relationship of my life; since I can now satisfy my partner in every way. And because I'm giving my girl everything she wants, it means I get to do it a lot more often. Kenneth is, without a doubt, the number one guy when it comes to real sex education.
I got your modules a few months back and just really want to offer you the warmest of hugs. They are great and really made me realize just how little I know. I am a family medicine doctor and discussions of sex occasionally come up. I must say that today was the first day that I recommended the modules to a patient. Thank you for making the world a more open place!
I am seriously having the best sex of my life and it's thanks to you guys. I have never been happier and I cannot stop cumming LOL!
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Are you primal and always in beast mode like The Rock? Do you (literally) sweep your girl off her feet like Ryan Gosling in The Notebook? Do you have the confidence of Don Draper? Maybe you’re connected like Russell Brand? Are you technical like Iron Man? You might just have a little bit of everything like Justin Timberlake?
Are you primal and always in beast mode like The Rock? Do you (literally) sweep your girl off her feet like Ryan Gosling in The Notebook? Do you have the confidence of Don Draper? Maybe you’re connected like Russell Brand? Are you technical like Iron Man? You might just have a little bit of everything like Justin Timberlake?
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Sex Ed in Pop Culture: So She’s Wants to be Called a Dirty Slut?
I love seeing more and more conversations about sex in pop culture. Sex isn’t always sexy especially if you’re a teenager or new to exploring your sexuality. That’s why I had to take a look at the Netflix series ‘Sex Education’. In the episode they cover the very real awkwardness that can come with introducing dirty talk into the bedroom. What does she want? When does she want it? What are each of you comfortable … Read more
Elite Daily Interviews Kenneth Play & Dr. Zhana
What is sex coaching and what does it mean to be a sex educator? Watch as Elite Daily interviews personal trainer turned hands-on sex educator (and yours truly) Kenneth Play and sex educator, researcher, and writer, Dr. Zhana.
Squirting Secrets Shared!
There is very limited science on squirting, which my colleague Dr. Zhana has sifted through extensively while working on the Science of Squirting video (check it out on my Youtube!) for my online course. Dr. Zhana and I also talked squirting together on an episode of her Science of Sex Podcast — combining her academic research expertise with my hands-on “research” when it comes to making vagina-owners squirt. 😂 Just how many vaginas have I … Read more
Mindfulness Hack to Overcome Performance Anxiety: Sensate Focus
During this pandemic I know a lot of you are feeling stressed. Here’s my care package just for you, featuring a proven mindfulness sex hack to help you manage your anxiety and practice self-care. As many of us quarantine, it can be an amazing time to reconnect with our romantic partners who are isolating with us. Endless time to communicate, unearth unexplored desires, lots of date nights in, etc. But if you suffer from performance … Read more
One Bride, Two Grooms
I’m so excited to share with you all that I’m engaged — actually, co-engaged — with my now-fiance Karen, and my metamour Geronimo. We are in a polyamourous relationship, specifically a V-triad, meaning that Geronimo and I are a-sexual and a-romantic with each other, but both deeply in love with Karen. She said yes, and yes! As modern love rapidly changes in a world of globalization and technology, the number of people practicing forms of … Read more
Epic Romantic Sex Hack (Free Tutorial on Pornhub)
On this Valentine’s Day I want to embody the art of giving pleasure. In our world of screens, we don’t often spend intentional, whole-heartedly connected time with the people we love. We poke fun at memes like “forget flowers, find my G-spot”, but people really do value effort and being seen. I want to help you bring all of that into a sensual, spellbinding, pampering experience for your lover. My Valentine’s present to you … Read more
#41 of the Best Sex Advice Blogs!
I recently had the honor of this blog being listed in the Top 50 Sex Advice Blogs of 2019! I’m so glad that people enjoy the advice I give and stories I tell here, especially since many of them are important to me too. In case you’re new to my site, or you don’t often check out the Kenneth Play blog, here are my 5 most popular blog posts, in honor of the top 50 … Read more
A Little Death Podcast with Alana Heiss
I recently was lucky to re-connect with my friend Alana Heiss, and join her on her podcast “A Little Death”! Alana is the amazing author of my GQ feature and an amazing human. We chatted about my new Sex Hacker Pro Course, the ways we want to change sex education and spread pleasure, and what I’m planning for the future! Alana and I talked about the benefits and the technical aspects of the Sex Hacker … Read more
Tips n’ Tricks for Lickin’ Clits!
Aka, how I starred in my first porn film I’m probably the most unlikely porn star. Average sized cock, Asian immigrant, a sex nerd / hacker / educator. But as of today’s film release, I’ve starred in a porno. Okay, to be fair, I’m not talking, like, Brazzers. The film that was released today, “Tips n’ Tricks for Lickin’ Clits”, is an Erika Lust film directed by Reed Amber and Florence Barkway, of Come Curious. … Read more