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Great lovers are made, not born.
Men are not inherently selfish. Society has made men insecure about their size, erections, and endurance. We're all robbed of a good sex education. I say, fuck all that bullshit.
I've helped thousands of good men realize their sexual potential and take their lovers to places they've never been before.
Hi, my name is Kenneth Play.
GQ calls me "the world's greatest sex hacker" and Playboy says I'm "a personal trainer for pussy", but I'm also a formerly sexually insecure Asian immigrant with an average-sized cock.
In the last 9 years I've been obsessively deconstructing techniques from world-renowned sex educators, researchers, kinksters, tantra masters, and tested them in thousands of hours of hands-on sessions. I discovered sex hacks that completely transformed my life.
Now I need to share the secrets I've learned. Taking you from insecurity to lasting confidence, from an average to a remarkable lover. I care about you getting results.
Yesterday I had an experience that made me reflect upon how powerful some of your lessons have been. I hooked up with someone who has always intimidated the hell out of me sexually. (So much so that I had never pursued her.) She's very sex-positive and has clearly had a lot of experiences compared to me (I was in a monogamous relationship with my "high school sweetheart" for 10+ years until recently). Afterwards - among other things - she couldn't say enough nice things about how good I was with my hands. She was absolutely glowing. The past six months have been a game-changer and yesterday was just the icing on the cake. The impact of this stuff extends way beyond sex. The positive benefits on intimacy, dating, relationships, confidence, etc. is huge.
Before I came across Kenneth, I had serious performance anxiety, and as a result, I could rarely stay hard, if I ever got hard with a partner. It was life crushing; when previous partners wanted what was only natural, I could rarely step up to the plate. I honestly didn't know what to do. Since watching Kenneth's in-depth videos on what makes a woman tick, and how to do it, I've applied everything he's taught me, and as a result, I've overcome all my anxieties. Not only that, I'm in the happiest and healthiest relationship of my life; since I can now satisfy my partner in every way. And because I'm giving my girl everything she wants, it means I get to do it a lot more often. Kenneth is, without a doubt, the number one guy when it comes to real sex education.
I got your modules a few months back and just really want to offer you the warmest of hugs. They are great and really made me realize just how little I know. I am a family medicine doctor and discussions of sex occasionally come up. I must say that today was the first day that I recommended the modules to a patient. Thank you for making the world a more open place!
I am seriously having the best sex of my life and it's thanks to you guys. I have never been happier and I cannot stop cumming LOL!
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By: Kenneth Play (as told to T.S.Farley) If there’s one thing we can all agree to in this current culture, it’s that men suck, right? “Boo men!” and “Down with the patriarchy!” and “Off with their dicks!”, right? Given that reality, when looking at the “orgasm gap” that exists today—ie, the discrepancy between how often … Read more
Smarter Hookups in the Time of COVID-19
We wanted to write this guide because sexual pleasure is a right and a deep need, and because we believe that the best way to ensure safety is to offer realistic guidelines. Telling people not to have sex just doesn’t work. After decades of study of sex education that emphasizes abstinence only, we … Read more
Sex Hacks for All! featured in Hustler Magazine by T.S. Farley
You want to know the truth of why I do what I do? Why I teach explicit sex education? And more specifically why I cater towards cis straight men to please cis straight women? Because it had never been done before and when I had questions about how to please women I was not in … Read more
Sex Ed in Pop Culture: So She’s Wants to be Called a Dirty Slut?
I love seeing more and more conversations about sex in pop culture. Sex isn’t always sexy especially if you’re a teenager or new to exploring your sexuality. That’s why I had to take a look at the Netflix series ‘Sex Education’. In the episode they cover the very real awkwardness that can come with introducing … Read more
Elite Daily Interviews Kenneth Play & Dr. Zhana
What is sex coaching and what does it mean to be a sex educator? Watch as Elite Daily interviews personal trainer turned hands-on sex educator (and yours truly) Kenneth Play and sex educator, researcher, and writer, Dr. Zhana.
Pornhub’s Sexual Wellness Center Presents: The 90-Minute Orgasm
One of my very favorite sex education platforms is PornHub’s Sexual Wellness Center. I love that over the years they’ve evolved to become this all inclusive space that is meant for learning and fun. Who say’s school has to be boring? Can you imagine a 90-minute orgasm? Is it something your partner or yourself even wants? … Read more
The 90-Minute Orgasm & Its Benefits on Your Mental Health
We all have insecurities and a lot of the time, in women and in men, we let those insecurities hold us back from all kinds of opportunities in our life. Including sexual pleasure. For years I was stuck living an unfulfilled life, insecure, never believing I would be who I wanted to be. After changing … Read more
The Lust Ed Video Series: An Explicit Guide to Multiple Orgasms
Don’t let the idea of multiple orgasms exhaust you! I’ll never get tired of talking about and teaching the art of making her cum over and over again. It is always a privilege to with Erika Lust whether it’s for your viewing pleasure or for sex education. (Let’s be real – her work is always … Read more
Pornhub Worthy Squirting Secrets Revealed
There is very limited science on squirting, which my colleague Dr. Zhana has sifted through extensively while working on the Science of Squirting video (check it out on my Youtube!) for my online course. Dr. Zhana and I also talked squirting together on an episode of her Science of Sex Podcast — combining her academic … Read more