I’m Kenneth Play.

Kenneth Play is an international expert on female pleasure who was named the World’s Greatest Sex Hacker by GQ & Men’s Health. After his 15 years of experience as a personal trainer, he leveraged the best of the fitness education model to re-envision sex education, and has now helped millions of men gain sexual competence through rapid skill acquisition. His newest course, Sex Hacker Pro, features 70+ videos and over 12 hours of content, and was described by AskMen as having “at least one nugget of sexual learning you’ve almost certainly never encountered before, if not several.” He partnered with Dr. Zhana Vrangalova to conduct the world’s largest scientific survey on female ejaculation. He has guest lectured on female sexual pleasure at New York University and San Jose State University. Kenneth has been featured by more than 100 media outlets including The New York Times, Nightline, Cosmo, Playboy, Vice, and Huffington Post. He cofounded Hacienda, a sex-positive community space which empowers sexual exploration through hands-on sex education workshops and events. Kenneth’s forthcoming book, “Beyond Satisfied: A Sex Hacker’s Guide to Endless Orgasms, Mind-Blowing Connection, and Lasting Confidence”, will be released in 2022.

My timeline

  • 1981

    Born in Hong Kong


  • 1991

    Moved to the USA, NYC

    An awkward, shy immigrant kid

  • 1999

    Graduated High School

    Always the friend, never the boyfriend

  • 2007

    After a Bad Breakup

    I got chubby & insecure, so I decided to hack my fitness

  • 2010

    A Top Fitness Professional

    Celebrity fitness trainer, successful but not happy

  • 2011

    Discover Sex Parties

    Met the Queen of Hacienda, Beth, beginning my sex nerd journey

  • 2014

    Co-Founded Hacienda Villa

    A sex-positive community with Andrew Sparksfire

  • 2015

    Began My Sex Hacking Journey

    Dedicated myself to sex education, attended Sex Geek Summer Camp, & mentored by Reid Mihalko

  • 2016

    Created My Squirting Playlab

    Released my first online course through livestream, realizing the power of online education

  • 2017

    GQ Names Me “World’s Greatest Sex Hacker”

    Seth Meyers teases about my coaching on his show, The View discusses the new brand of sex ed that I represent

  • 2018

    Launched Sex Hacking Online Course

    5 courses, 25 videos

  • 2019

    Launched Sex Hacking Pro Course

    9 courses, 70+ videos

Kenneth has been profiled in

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“The sought after sex coach for the rich & famous.”
“…the World’s Greatest Sex Hacker.”
“The goal of Play’s sex ed work is to help people, mostly men, unlearn awful sex myths through science-based sex hacks… that make an amazing lover.”
Kenneth taught me how to get my girlfriend to squirt!
Kenneth Play - Zumio

My content

Pornhub Worthy Squirting Secrets Revealed

Pornhub Worthy Squirting Secrets Revealed

There is very limited science on squirting, which my colleague Dr. Zhana has sifted through extensively while working on the Science of Squirting video (check it out on my Youtube!) for my online course. Dr. Zhana and I also talked squirting together on an episode of...

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Men’s Health: How I Acquired My Orgasmic Wisdom

Men’s Health: How I Acquired My Orgasmic Wisdom

Men’s Health talked with me about how I became Kenneth Play: Sex Hacker, in their newest article. It covers my career journey, how I came to teach sex skills, and shows how my personal transformation influenced my teaching style. Growing up as an awkward Asian...

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Penis Size – Sex & Stigma

Penis Size – Sex & Stigma

I was just featured in an article for refinery29, The Best Sex Positions When Your Partner Isn’t Necessarily Endowed by Alden Wicker, that discussed the stigma around small penises and how certain sexual positions make penis size completely irrelevant. “My name is...

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