I’m Kenneth Play.

“The World’s Greatest Sex Hacker” – GQ 

Kenneth Play is proof that great lovers are made, not born. 

He was an Asian immigrant with an average-sized cock who lived most of his life with crippling sexual insecurity. Determined to overcome this anxiety, he dedicated his life to studying the complexities of academic sex research, exploring the mysteries of Tantra, immersing himself in the forbidden world of BDSM, and joining the lustful chaos of underground sex parties.

His quest worked. Now he’s an internationally-recognized sexpert focused on female pleasure, sexual performance, & rapid skill acquisition. 

His book Beyond Satisfied: A Sex Hacker’s Guide to Endless Orgasms, Mind-Blowing Connection, and Lasting Confidence is an Amazon #1 Bestseller. In it, he shares the sex hacking secrets he’s successfully taught millions of men.

His gold-standard online course, Sex Hacker Pro, is endorsed by women and sex therapists worldwide.

In partnership with Dr. Zhana Vrangalova, the premiere academic authority on open relationships and casual sex, he co-created the world’s largest scientific survey on female ejaculation, and guest lectured on female sexual pleasure at New York University and San Jose State. 

Kenneth has been featured by more than 100 media outlets including The New York Times, Nightline, Cosmopolitan, Playboy, Vice, and Huffington Post. He cofounded Hacienda, a sex-positive community space which empowers sexual exploration through hands-on sex education workshops and events.

His forthcoming e-book, Daddy Prime, about age-defying fitness for sexual performance, drops in Summer 2022

My timeline

  • 1981

    Born in Hong Kong


  • 1991

    Moved to the USA, NYC

    An awkward, shy immigrant kid

  • 1999

    Graduated High School

    Always the friend, never the boyfriend

  • 2007

    After a Bad Breakup

    I got chubby & insecure, so I decided to hack my fitness

  • 2010

    A Top Fitness Professional

    Celebrity fitness trainer, successful but not happy

  • 2011

    Discover Sex Parties

    Met the Queen of Hacienda, Beth, beginning my sex nerd journey

  • 2014

    Co-Founded Hacienda Villa

    A sex-positive community with Andrew Sparksfire

  • 2015

    Began My Sex Hacking Journey

    Dedicated myself to sex education, attended Sex Geek Summer Camp, & mentored by Reid Mihalko

  • 2016

    Created My Squirting Playlab

    Released my first online course through livestream, realizing the power of online education

  • 2017

    GQ Names Me “World’s Greatest Sex Hacker”

    Seth Meyers teases about my coaching on his show, The View discusses the new brand of sex ed that I represent

  • 2018

    Launched Sex Hacking Online Course

    5 courses, 25 videos

  • 2019

    Launched Sex Hacking Pro Course

    9 courses, 70+ videos

Kenneth has been profiled in

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“The sought after sex coach for the rich & famous.”
“…the World’s Greatest Sex Hacker.”
“The goal of Play’s sex ed work is to help people, mostly men, unlearn awful sex myths through science-based sex hacks… that make an amazing lover.”
Kenneth taught me how to get my girlfriend to squirt!
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My content

7 orgasm myths, busted

7 orgasm myths, busted

One of the incredible upsides to learning more about sexual technique and experience is that we can train ourselves to help us become more receptive to pleasure.  For people who have a hard time orgasming, this is great news—we can build this capacity with deliberate...

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What kink can teach us about communication

What kink can teach us about communication

This blog post has the potential to make your sex life at least fifty shades better. Why? Because the protocols I'm about to introduce you to have been tested by the good folks over at the bleeding edge of sexual expression—the kink community. Because kinksters engage...

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How to make anyone squirt

How to make anyone squirt

Squirting, aka female ejaculation or gushing. I’d seen it in porn and, even though I didn’t know exactly what these girly geysers were composed of, how they were being brought forth, or if they were some new type of female orgasm, I was 100% certain of two things:...

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