I’m Kenneth Play.

Kenneth Play is an international expert on female pleasure who was named the World’s Greatest Sex Hacker by GQ & Men’s Health. After his 15 years of experience as a personal trainer, he leveraged the best of the fitness education model to re-envision sex education, and has now helped millions of men gain sexual competence through rapid skill acquisition. His newest course, Sex Hacker Pro, features 70+ videos and over 12 hours of content, and was described by AskMen as having “at least one nugget of sexual learning you’ve almost certainly never encountered before, if not several.” He partnered with Dr. Zhana Vrangalova to conduct the world’s largest scientific survey on female ejaculation. He has guest lectured on female sexual pleasure at New York University and San Jose State University. Kenneth has been featured by more than 100 media outlets including The New York Times, Nightline, Cosmo, Playboy, Vice, and Huffington Post. He cofounded Hacienda, a sex-positive community space which empowers sexual exploration through hands-on sex education workshops and events. Kenneth’s forthcoming book, “Beyond Satisfied: A Sex Hacker’s Guide to Endless Orgasms, Mind-Blowing Connection, and Lasting Confidence”, will be released in 2022.

My timeline

  • 1981

    Born in Hong Kong


  • 1991

    Moved to the USA, NYC

    An awkward, shy immigrant kid

  • 1999

    Graduated High School

    Always the friend, never the boyfriend

  • 2007

    After a Bad Breakup

    I got chubby & insecure, so I decided to hack my fitness

  • 2010

    A Top Fitness Professional

    Celebrity fitness trainer, successful but not happy

  • 2011

    Discover Sex Parties

    Met the Queen of Hacienda, Beth, beginning my sex nerd journey

  • 2014

    Co-Founded Hacienda Villa

    A sex-positive community with Andrew Sparksfire

  • 2015

    Began My Sex Hacking Journey

    Dedicated myself to sex education, attended Sex Geek Summer Camp, & mentored by Reid Mihalko

  • 2016

    Created My Squirting Playlab

    Released my first online course through livestream, realizing the power of online education

  • 2017

    GQ Names Me “World’s Greatest Sex Hacker”

    Seth Meyers teases about my coaching on his show, The View discusses the new brand of sex ed that I represent

  • 2018

    Launched Sex Hacking Online Course

    5 courses, 25 videos

  • 2019

    Launched Sex Hacking Pro Course

    9 courses, 70+ videos

Kenneth has been profiled in

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“The sought after sex coach for the rich & famous.”
“…the World’s Greatest Sex Hacker.”
“The goal of Play’s sex ed work is to help people, mostly men, unlearn awful sex myths through science-based sex hacks… that make an amazing lover.”
Kenneth taught me how to get my girlfriend to squirt!
Kenneth Play - Zumio

My content

7 orgasm myths, busted

7 orgasm myths, busted

One of the incredible upsides to learning more about sexual technique and experience is that we can train ourselves to help us become more receptive to pleasure.  For people who have a hard time orgasming, this is great news—we can build this capacity with deliberate...

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What Kink Can Teach Us About Communication

What Kink Can Teach Us About Communication

This blog post has the potential to make your sex life at least fifty shades better. Why? Because the protocols I'm about to introduce you to have been tested by the good folks over at the bleeding edge of sexual expression—the kink community. Because kinksters engage...

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How to make anyone squirt

How to make anyone squirt

Squirting, aka female ejaculation or gushing. I’d seen it in porn and, even though I didn’t know exactly what these girly geysers were composed of, how they were being brought forth, or if they were some new type of female orgasm, I was 100% certain of two things:...

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