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Stretching Downwards

Stretching Downwards

"When you’re ready to slide your fingers in, turn your hand palm-up so your fingernail presses against the bottom of her vagina, towards her anus. The bottom wall of the vagina stretches the most, and your lubed-up finger will slide in smoothly." - Excerpt from Beyond...

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Labia Massage

Labia Massage

"Before you slide your fingers inside your partner’s vagina, tease around the vaginal opening to get the tissues warmed up to sensation." - Excerpt from Beyond Satisfied by Kenneth Play, Chapter 7: Fingering, Different Strokes, p. 232

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Knuckle Rub

Knuckle Rub

The first gif shows the giver's hand going in a wider, circular motion, whereas the second gif shows the giver going in more of an up and down motion. Remember to calibrate the amount of pressure, using feedback from the receiver. "For another technique, make a loose...

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Finger Fan

Finger Fan

Fanning will spread fingers to create an intermittent contact. "If your partner prefers sensation across her whole vulva, use your whole hand, with fingers flat and pressed together, to stroke back and forth across her vulva and clit. The subtle ripple between your...

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Clit Sandwich

Clit Sandwich

"Because the clit is incredibly sensitive, it usually doesn’t like to be touched directly right away. You can tease the clit by pinching the outer lips of her labia around your partner’s clit and hood to make a sandwich. Use your fingers to lightly squeeze and massage...

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Pussy Hug

Pussy Hug

"Give her a grounding touch with your whole palm covering her vulva, using some pressure and a little movement. I call this a “pussy hug.” It helps bring a calming sensation to her genitals without creating stimulation right away." - Excerpt from Beyond Satisfied by...

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Pleasure Assist

Pleasure Assist

"We each have our own set of go-to techniques to get off, and we often end up treating these reliable sensations like Megan Rapinoe on the US women’s soccer team: we rely heavily on one star player, one technique, to kick the ball in the net. But that one player isn’t...

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Cervical Changes

Cervical Changes

"As the illustration above depicts, when women are closer to ovulation, and are more fertile, the cervix ascends higher into the vagina, softens, and opens. At this time, slipperier vaginal secretions come from it in greater volume. During phases of the cycle where...

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The G-Spot

The G-Spot

"To find your partner’s G-spot (the G stands for Gräfenberg), start by feeling the front wall of her vagina, reaching towards her belly button. According to research by OMGYes, 58 percent of women report that their G-spot is on the front wall of the vagina or slightly...

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