Mindfulness Hack to Overcome Performance Anxiety: Sensate Focus

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During this pandemic I know a lot of you are feeling stressed. Here’s my care package just for you, featuring a proven mindfulness sex hack to help you manage your anxiety and practice self-care. As many of us quarantine, it can be an amazing time to reconnect with our romantic partners who are isolating with … Read more

One Girl, Two Guys, One Ring

Kenneth and Geronimo propose to Karen

I’m so excited to share with you all that I’m engaged — actually, co-engaged — with my now-fiance Karen, and my metamour Geronimo. We are in a polyamourous relationship, specifically a V-triad, meaning that Geronimo and I are a-sexual and a-romantic with each other, but both deeply in love with Karen. She said yes, and … Read more

Epic Romantic Sex Hack (Free Tutorial on Pornhub)

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On this Valentine’s Day I want to embody the art of giving pleasure. In our world of screens, we don’t often spend intentional, whole-heartedly connected time with the people we love. We poke fun at memes like “forget flowers, find my G-spot”, but people really do value effort and being seen. I want to help … Read more

#41 of the Best Sex Advice Blogs!

KP blog #41 on list of top 50 sex advice blogs

I recently had the honor of this blog being listed in the Top 50 Sex Advice Blogs of 2019! I’m so glad that people enjoy the advice I give and stories I tell here, especially since many of them are important to me too.  In case you’re new to my site, or you don’t often … Read more

A Little Death Podcast with Alana Heiss

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I recently was lucky to re-connect with my friend Alana Heiss, and join her on her podcast “A Little Death”! Alana is the amazing author of my GQ feature and an amazing human. We chatted about my new Sex Hacker Pro Course, the ways we want to change sex education and spread pleasure, and what … Read more

Tips n’ Tricks for Lickin’ Clits!

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Aka, how I starred in my first porn film I’m probably the most unlikely porn star. Average sized cock, Asian immigrant, a sex nerd / hacker / educator. But as of today’s film release, I’ve starred in a porno. Okay, to be fair, I’m not talking, like, Brazzers. The film that was released today, “Tips … Read more

Men’s Health: How I Acquired My Orgasmic Wisdom

Men's Health features Kenneth Play

Men’s Health talked with me about how I became Kenneth Play: Sex Hacker, in their newest article. It covers my career journey, how I came to teach sex skills, and shows how my personal transformation influenced my teaching style. Growing up as an awkward Asian immigrant with an average sized cock meant that I never … Read more

Course Review: The Sex Ed Teacher You Never Had

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Sex education in schools (and often from our parents/care-takers) is really bad. There’s honestly no nice way to put it: sex ed for most of us sucked. And we’ve probably spent most of our adult lives trying to overcome these deficiencies. When we become sexually active, most of us know nothing about anatomy let alone … Read more

AskMen Reviews the Pro Course!

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When it comes to learning about sex, the decision to pursue a full course can be a tough one. And while I can tell you all about how great my Sex Hacker Pro Course is, I also know how valuable an unbiased review can be to your decision-making. Will this course be right for you? … Read more

Growth Mindset, Sexual Pleasure, & Expressing Yourself

It’s been a whirlwind few months! Aside from the usual coaching and learning, I launched a brand new course with over 70 videos, got engaged, and have been doing lots of interviews to spread my vision for a pleasure-filled world. I believe that it’s so important to talk about sexuality and pleasure, especially our struggles … Read more