Latest Articles

7 orgasm myths, busted

7 orgasm myths, busted

One of the incredible upsides to learning more about sexual technique and experience is that we can train ourselves to help us become more receptive to pleasure.  For people who have a hard time orgasming, this is great news—we can build this capacity with deliberate...

read more
Aftercare: Because sex ain’t over ’til it’s over

Aftercare: Because sex ain’t over ’til it’s over

I recently wrote a blog post about how the BDSM community has devised communication protocols that aren't just for kink. These conventions have incredible utility in even the most vanilla sex play and transform a mediocre sex life into a stellar one. I'm talking about...

read more

All Articles

What Kink Can Teach Us About Communication

What Kink Can Teach Us About Communication

This blog post has the potential to make your sex life at least fifty shades better. Why? Because the protocols I'm about to introduce you to have been tested by the good folks over at the bleeding edge of sexual expression—the kink community. Because kinksters engage...

read more
How to make anyone squirt

How to make anyone squirt

Squirting, aka female ejaculation or gushing. I’d seen it in porn and, even though I didn’t know exactly what these girly geysers were composed of, how they were being brought forth, or if they were some new type of female orgasm, I was 100% certain of two things:...

read more
Advanced fingering techniques

Advanced fingering techniques

I cover a lot of ground in the Sex Hacker Pro course. Something I don't scrimp on is granular information about fingering. That's because your fingers are the most effective, underrated tools for learning how your partner's body responds to every different kind of...

read more
Sexual performance anxiety: I overcame it and so can you!

Sexual performance anxiety: I overcame it and so can you!

I'm proud of the Sex Hacker Pro course.  I envisioned it to be the most game-changing sex education content in the world, and, although I may be biased, I think I achieved what I set out to do.  It's beyond gratifying when I receive messages from people whose lives...

read more
How to prepare for anal sex

How to prepare for anal sex

Porn perpetuates a lot of lies about sex. Penises, generally speaking, aren't that big. Bodies typically aren't that taught, tan, and hairless. Pizza delivery guys aren't ordinarily beset by sexual opportunity at every turn. But perhaps the biggest lie porn likes to...

read more
Back to basics: fingering 101

Back to basics: fingering 101

If you happened to walk into my bedroom, you'd be confronted with a cornucopia of apparatus designed to elicit sexual pleasure and mind-melting orgasms. But this arsenal of sex toys—impressive though it is—belies a surprising truth: that I've made more women orgasm...

read more

Get the best sex hacks by signing up to my newsletter!

I can teach you how to satisfy her like never before, learn more:

Ready to learn
the best sex skills?