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Ejaculation Etiquette

Sexual communication is about more than just arousal and preferences -- sometimes it's also about the climax experience. Alex Manley and I recently talked about this often overlooked topic for Ask Men's article Ejaculation Etiquette: Where…
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5 Tips For Pleasing People With Vulvas

Regardless of gender, all of us our robbed of a comprehensive sex education, especially around pleasure. That's why I decided to turn the "elusive" topic of female pleasure into practical sex education courses and advice, that people could take…
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Sex Positions to be a Rim Job Pro

I get a lot of questions about anal play. Like, a lot. And besides recommending that you get good at everything else first, my second piece of top advice is that you follow the ranks of anal play and prep: rub, lick, finger, dick. Rub the outside…
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The Only 3 Sex Toys to Use, According to an Aficionado

I take great pride in the amount of sex toys I've tested and love, but there is one man who's even more passionate about toys than me: my friend Grant Stoddard. Grant has been attending my workshops and writing about me for a while now, and…
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The 1st Ever World Love Summit!

Imagine walking into your next Swinger Party with complete confidence that the night is going to go great! Everyone you talk to you get along with. You have more ‘options’ then you’ve ever had before. Even your partner is thanking you…
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The Top 3 Qualities of an Amazing Lover

Ah, the eternal question: what will make me the best lover? The sex advice industry is full of answers, some more legitimate than others. But let's clear the air right away: the answer isn't a steel erection, magical endurance, or a porn-start…
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Myths Men Should Unlearn About Sex

There are so many sex myths holding us back from living the love life of our dreams, and so many that men specifically have yet to unlearn. This is why I was so excited to talk to AskMen for their article "Things Guys Need to Unlearn About Sex:…
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How to Respond to Nudes Like a Pro

Maybe you read my last blog post about sending sexts that don't suck (check it out here if you didn't!) and wanted to dive deeper into the art of responding to nudes? Well you're in luck because Ask Men focused specifically on this when they…
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How to Write a Sext that Doesn't Suck

The Huffington Post recently featured my advice in their article "How to Write a Sext that Doesn't Suck"! Sexting is such an underrated form of foreplay, so this article was awesome to be a part of. I would even say that sexting is one of the…
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Kenneth Guest Stars on The Science of Sex Podcast!

Episode #56 - Squirting School Squirting is really having a moment right now! My colleague Dr. Zhana and I have always been asked a ton of questions about squirting, or female ejaculation, so I was excited to join her and her colleague Joe…