LGBTQ+ Resource


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LGBTQ+ Resource

LGBTQ+ Resource Guide





For over 30 years, GLAAD has been at the forefront of cultural change, accelerating acceptance for the LGBTQ community. GLAAD works through entertainment, news, and digital media to share stories from the LGBTQ+ community that accelerate acceptance. 



GLSEN believes that every student has the right to a safe, supportive, and LGBTQ+ inclusive K-12 education. They are a national network of educators, students, and local GLSEN Chapters working to create affirming learning environments for LGBTQ+ youth. 


Hetrick Martin Institute 

Hetrick-Martin Institute provides free year-round programs and services for LGTBQ+ youth and allies ages 13-24 at our permanent locations in New York City, and Newark, NJ. They also help organize and produce youth events throughout New York City and New Jersey.

Them provides news and commentary on topics ranging from culture and politics to style and entertainment relevant to the LGBTQ+ community today.


Pride for Youth 

PFY is a service and an advocate for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer/questioning (LGBTQ+) young people through age 45. Their mission is to enhance the health and wellness of the LGBTQ+ community through education, supportive services and personal development in Nassau, Suffolk and Queens Counties.


Booklets & Video Resources


Principles of Gender-Inclusive Puberty and Health Education


Supporting LGBTQ+ Youth of Color


LGBTQ+ Sex Educators & Clinicians


Rachel Wright

Psychotherapist Rachel Wright (she/her) is recognized as one of the freshest voices on modern relationships and sex. She is an experienced speaker, group facilitator, educator, therapist, coach, and on-camera mental health and relationship expert. With a Master’s Degree in clinical psychology, Rachel has worked with thousands of couples all over the world, helping them scream less and screw more. She has brought her message to stages across the globe, was SHAPE Magazine’s Sex + Relationships Coach for Crush Your Goals, and is the co-host of the Bachelor-themed podcast, The Wright Reasons. @thewright_rachel


Luna Matatas

Luna Matatas is a Sex and Pleasure Educator with over 10 years of experience in sexual health and wellness internationally and locally. Her playful approach to sexuality draws on the creativity, confidence and communication skills we all need to fulfill our pleasure potentials.

She teaches people how to build a better relationship to their bodies, practice empathy with their partner’s insecurities and needs, and how to get curious about their erotic imagination. Luna’s classes are trauma and equity informed and include lots of pleasure topics, from anal play and feminine dominance to how to have a threesome. @lunamatatas


Erika Hart

A kinky, poly activist and sexuality educator with a Master’s of Education in Human Sexuality from Widener University, Ericka Hart has taught sexuality education for elementary aged youth to adults across New York City for over 10 years, including serving as a Peace Corps HIV/AIDs volunteer in Ethiopia from 2008-2010. Diagnosed with bilateral breast cancer in May 2014 at the age of 28, she realized that neither her identity as a queer black femme, nor her sex life as a survivor was featured prominently in her treatment. She decided to do something about it: going topless (and viral) in public, bearing her double mastectomy scars to help end the lack of black and brown LGBTQIA+ representation in breast cancer awareness. @iharterika


Auntie Jayda

Jayda, also known as the sex positive asian autie, is a queer, Thai-American sexual wellness educator committed to creating spaces for people of color to feel empowered in their exploration of sexuality and relationships. @jayda_kissed


Yana Tallon-Hicks

Yana Tallon-Hicks is a couples and relationships therapist and sexuality writer and educator living in Western Massachusetts. Her work centers around the belief that pleasure-positive and consent-based sex education can positively impact our lives and the world. Yana works with clients from all backgrounds and relationship styles, especially including LGBTQ+ couples and those in non-monogamous relationship structures. @the_vspot


Tristan Tanormino

Tristan Taormino is an award-winning author, columnist, sex educator, speaker, media maker, and podcast host. She is the author of eight books and editor or co-editor of 25 anthologies. She keynotes, lectures, and teaches workshops around the world. She is the host and executive producer of the long running podcast Sex Out Loud. @tristantaormino


Dr. Liz

Dr. Liz is here to help you have more satisfying relationships in all areas of your life – including the bedroom. As a sex educator, speaker, therapist, and popular podcast guest, they are able to connect with people from all across the sexual spectra. Kinksters, queerdos, non-binary folx, and non-monogamists are my specialty. But, I’m here to help anyone who wants to cultivate healthy, consent-driven, autonomy-focused relationships. No matter who you are, you deserve love – exactly how you are and exactly how you want. @drlizpowell


Violet Cerutti

Violet is a trauma-trained, queer, polyamorous sex educator and pleasure coach. She holds a B.A in human sexuality studies and psychology and was trained as a sex educator while facilitating sex-positive, pleasure-driven workshops for middle and high schoolers. She now works with adults and budding sex educators, creating affirming and inclusive spaces for education. By merging her academic background and personal experience, she learned how to cultivate power through her sexuality. Her mission today is to create a space for others to do the same. @turningviolet_


Chris Grant

The Queer Therapist is a UK-based online accredited therapy service dedicated to providing queer, gender and neurodiversity-affirming therapy both nationally and internationally. Grounded in intersectional, trauma-informed and evidence-based counseling and psychotherapy, The Queer Therapist offers short and long-term therapy that aims to equip you with the necessary knowledge, clarity and tools so that you can reach your goals and lead a happier, more fulfilling life. @theqtherapist


Nyx Melody

Nyx Melody is a queer and nonbinary, genderqueer, trans-femme New York State licensed psychotherapist, clinical supervisor, educator and consultant on anti-oppression, mental health, and LGBTQIPA2S+ issues. Nyx graduated from Point Park University with a bachelor’s degree in Psychology. They completed a dual masters degree from Columbia University Teachers’s College. They also teach as an adjunct professor at Columbia University Teacher’s College and New York University. @nicholas.moran.lmhc


Dulcinea Pitagora

Dulcinea offers affirming psychotherapy and sex therapy for individuals, couples, multiple-partner relationships, and poly and leather families. They are an expert in alternative sexualities, and specialize in working with adults in the kink, poly, trans, GNC/NB, LGBQ, and sex-work communities. They work with those who live openly and out; and those who have more conservative and private lifestyles. Their approach is holistic, person-centered, and collaborative. They welcome people of every ability, age, gender, national origin, race/ethnicity, religious affiliation, and sexual orientation. As a white anti-racist therapist, they create space for conversations that de/reconstruct whiteness, and cultivate positive racial and intersectional identities. @kinkdoctor


Koa Kreation

Koe Creation is truly a Sex Educator for the 21st century. Having grown up as a child of a sex-positive, polyamorous family, Koe uses their unique knowledge as a second-generation queerspawn to provide prospective parents and families a framework for successful cross-generational communication about their identities and relationship(s). Koe’s interest in relationship dynamics and Koe’s award winning involvement in the Sex Education, LGBTQ+ Activism, Public Health Advocacy and work within polyamorous and kink communities has only grown throughout their life. @koecreate


Mental Health Resources 


The Trevor Project 

The Trevor Project provides 24/7 crisis support services to LGBTQ young people. Text, chat, or call anytime to reach a trained counselor.


Manhattan Alternative Therapy

A network of unaffiliated, independently practicing therapeutic service providers in New York City who are sex-positive, affirmative, and have expertise related to issues that kink, poly, consensually non-monogamous, trans, gender non-conforming, and/or LGBTQ+ individuals face.


The National Center for Transgender Equality 

The National Center for Transgender Equality advocates to change policies and society to increase understanding and acceptance of transgender people. In the nation’s capital and throughout the country, NCTE works to replace disrespect, discrimination, and violence with empathy, opportunity, and justice.


 The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender National Hotline 

The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender (LGBT) National Help Center, founded in 1996, is a non-profit, tax-exempt organization that provides vital peer-support, community connections and resource information to people with questions regarding sexual orientation and/or gender identity. Utilizing a diverse group of LGBT volunteers, we operate three national hotlines, the LGBT National Hotline, the LGBT National Youth Talkline, and the LGBT National Senior Hotline as well as private, volunteer one-to-one online chat, that helps both youth and adults with coming-out issues, safer-sex information, school bullying, family concerns, relationship problems and a lot more.


The Expansive Group

Founded by AASECT Certified Sex Therapist Casey Tanner, The Expansive Group is a collective of passionate relationship, gender & sexuality professionals.


National Queer Therapists of Color

NQTTCN was officially launched in May 2016, as a call to organize mental health practitioners to establish a network where therapists can deepen their analysis of healing justice and where QTPoC community can connect to care. 


Articles & Blogs


We Need To Talk About LGBTQ Students & Sex Ed 


I Didn’t Know what Attraction Felt Like Until I was 20 Years Old – LGBTQ+ Storytime – Zoe Stollar


Why I Couldn’t Masturbate Until I Faced My Internalized Biphobia – Gabrielle Kassell


What Does Queer Mean? 9 LGBTQ+ People Explain How they Love, Hate, and Understand the word “Queer” – Alexander Cheves




Bad in Bed w/ Gabrielle Kassell & Bobby Box

The Queer Sex Podcast is a sex-positive podcast hosted by sex educators and journalists Bobby Box (he/him) and Gabrielle Kassel (she/her). Every week, the two tackle a topic near and dear to their hearts and loins, sharing their (s)experiences and chatting with industry experts. From sex toys, strap-on sex, and fisting, to sexual identity, painful sex, and loose genitals, Bad in Bed is the (queer) sex ed you never had, but always wanted and deserved!


We’re Having Gay Sex- Ashley Gavin

After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin trades in her u-haul for the whore phase she missed in her early 20’s. She documents every sexual detail in this podcast.

The queer dating scene is different than it was last decade, so she enlists the help of her youngest, queerest friends (lovingly referred to as “the youth in the sound booth” and “cancel coach”), equipped with a soundboard of gen-z sound effects, to keep Ashley from getting cancelled. Together they interview hilarious guests from all over the sexuality spectrum from straight to gay and cis to trans about the “gay” sex they had that week.


En(ba)by- Gara Lonning

Gara Lonning (@Garararararara) came out as trans and non-binary and now, with the help of their “Best Thems” Maggie Dunleavy (@softie.mag) and Basil Lee (@whagever), they take you on a euphoric journey where they interview some great guests, answer your amazing questions and have some open and honest conversations all about that little big thing called gender!


Inside the Closet- Emma Willman, & Matteo Lane

You won’t believe what NYC comedians Emma Willmann and Matteo Lane talk about Inside the Closet. Join comics Emma and Matteo as they share their experiences of being gay comics in mainstream culture.


Hoodrat to Headwrap-  Ebony Donnley

A decolonized podcast for lovers on the margins, join your resident sexuality educator Ericka Hart and deep east Oakland’s very own Ebony Donnley, as we game give, dismantle white supremacy and kiki in the cosmos somewhere between radical hood epistemological black queer love ethics, pop culture, house plants and a sea of books.


Dyking Out- Carolyn Bergier & Meladi Kamali

Hosted by New York City based comedians Carolyn Bergier & Melody Kamali, Dyking Out is a podcast about lesbian/queer life, news, and pop culture. Each week, Carolyn and Melody invite a special guest (comedians, musicians, actors, crushes) to “dyke out” with them about a topic that’s relevant to the LGBTQIA+ world. But really, it’s just another way to advance the gay agenda.


*This resource guide was curated by Violet @ Turning Violet


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