Advanced Fingering Techniques

Advanced Fingering Techniques

Learn How to Use These Advanced Fingering Techniques I cover a lot of ground in the Sex Hacker Pro course. Something I don't scrimp on is granular information about fingering. That's because your fingers are the most effective, underrated tools for learning how your...

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(Cosmopolitan) Hand Fetish: What It Is and How to Explore It

(Cosmopolitan) Hand Fetish: What It Is and How to Explore It

If someone has a hand fetish, chances are it's more specific than just being like, "hands are cool." In fact, international educator and creator of the Sex Hacker Pro Series Kenneth Play says it's usually super individualized and can range from "something mild, like...

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Back to basics: fingering 101

Back to basics: fingering 101

If you happened to walk into my bedroom, you'd be confronted with a cornucopia of apparatus designed to elicit sexual pleasure and mind-melting orgasms. But this arsenal of sex toys—impressive though it is—belies a surprising truth: that I've made more women orgasm...

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(Dame) A Handy Guide to Hand Sex

(Dame) A Handy Guide to Hand Sex

In the movies and media, penile/vaginal intercourse is portrayed most commonly as what sex “is”. We don’t see a ton of scenes that revolve around manual sex as an event unto itself. But hand sex is hot and fun for both foreplay and the main act! Here are some of my...

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Bouncing the Cervix

Bouncing the Cervix

"An advanced trick for women who like a lot of stimulation to their cervix is to reach your finger deep towards the A-spot, with the pad of your finger pressing down on the cervix. Flick your finger to bounce the cervix up and down, almost like dribbling a...

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Fingering the P-Spot (Posterior Fornix)

Fingering the P-Spot (Posterior Fornix)

"With your fingers inside your partner’s vagina, carefully turn your hand palm-down and trace your fingers around the cervix to feel the back wall of the vagina. This spot behind the cervix is the posterior fornix, or P-spot." - Excerpt from Beyond Satisfied by...

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Fingering the A-Spot

Fingering the A-Spot

"Reach your finger deeper in to find the A-spot, just in front of your partner’s cervix, closer to her belly button." - Excerpt from Beyond Satisfied by Kenneth Play, Chapter 10: Fingering, Internal Touch

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Inside and Outside

Inside and Outside

"If your partner likes even more firm sensation in this area, you can use your other hand to press down on her lower abdomen from the front, pushing the front wall of her vagina back into your other hand." - Excerpt from Beyond Satisfied by Kenneth Play, Chapter 10:...

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Moonwalk

Moonwalk

"You can also curl your fingers upward in a walking motion like you’re doing the moonwalk on her front vaginal wall with your fingers. This is a variation in sensation that some people really like. As you do it, pay attention to your fingertips, trying to feel the...

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Come Hither Motion

Come Hither Motion

"To create maximum sensation on the G-spot, uncurl your fingers all the way so they press towards the back wall of the vagina. As you uncurl your fingers towards the back wall of the vagina, you’re creating more range of motion. Then you can generate more force as you...

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Stacking Fingers

Stacking Fingers

"If you want to insert two fingers, stagger your index finger on top of your middle finger so they create the least amount of surface space sliding into the vaginal opening." - Excerpt from Beyond Satisfied by Kenneth Play, Chapter 7: Fingering, Different Strokes, p....

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Stretching Downwards

Stretching Downwards

"When you’re ready to slide your fingers in, turn your hand palm-up so your fingernail presses against the bottom of her vagina, towards her anus. The bottom wall of the vagina stretches the most, and your lubed-up finger will slide in smoothly." - Excerpt from Beyond...

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Labia Massage

Labia Massage

"Before you slide your fingers inside your partner’s vagina, tease around the vaginal opening to get the tissues warmed up to sensation." - Excerpt from Beyond Satisfied by Kenneth Play, Chapter 7: Fingering, Different Strokes, p. 232

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Knuckle Rub

Knuckle Rub

The first gif shows the giver's hand going in a wider, circular motion, whereas the second gif shows the giver going in more of an up and down motion. Remember to calibrate the amount of pressure, using feedback from the receiver. "For another technique, make a loose...

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Finger Fan

Finger Fan

Fanning will spread fingers to create an intermittent contact. "If your partner prefers sensation across her whole vulva, use your whole hand, with fingers flat and pressed together, to stroke back and forth across her vulva and clit. The subtle ripple between your...

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Clit Sandwich

Clit Sandwich

"Because the clit is incredibly sensitive, it usually doesn’t like to be touched directly right away. You can tease the clit by pinching the outer lips of her labia around your partner’s clit and hood to make a sandwich. Use your fingers to lightly squeeze and massage...

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Pussy Hug

Pussy Hug

"Give her a grounding touch with your whole palm covering her vulva, using some pressure and a little movement. I call this a “pussy hug.” It helps bring a calming sensation to her genitals without creating stimulation right away." - Excerpt from Beyond Satisfied by...

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The G-Spot

The G-Spot

"To find your partner’s G-spot (the G stands for Gräfenberg), start by feeling the front wall of her vagina, reaching towards her belly button. According to research by OMGYes, 58 percent of women report that their G-spot is on the front wall of the vagina or slightly...

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Practice Clit

Practice Clit

"You can ask your partner to show you how she touches her clit. One way is to ask her to masturbate while you watch. But you can also get a sensory experience of her technique by asking her to demonstrate on your hand. Place your thumb between your index and middle...

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Signature Move

Signature Move

"For most people, squirting requires vigorous, high-velocity stimulation. You won’t be able to provide your partner with high-intensity stimulation for more than a minute, so before you go for broke, it’s important to get your partner thoroughly warmed up and aroused....

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