(Cosmopolitan) Hand Fetish: What It Is and How to Explore It

(Cosmopolitan) Hand Fetish: What It Is and How to Explore It

If someone has a hand fetish, chances are it's more specific than just being like, "hands are cool." In fact, international educator and creator of the Sex Hacker Pro Series Kenneth Play says it's usually super individualized and can range from "something mild, like...

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Aftercare—because sex ain’t over ’til it’s over

Aftercare—because sex ain’t over ’til it’s over

I recently wrote a blog post about how the BDSM community has devised communication protocols that aren't just for kink. These conventions have incredible utility in even the most vanilla sex play and transform a mediocre sex life into a stellar one. I'm talking about...

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What kink can teach us about communication

What kink can teach us about communication

This blog post has the potential to make your sex life at least fifty shades better. Why? Because the protocols I'm about to introduce you to have been tested by the good folks over at the bleeding edge of sexual expression—the kink community. Because kinksters engage...

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(AskMen) 10 Common Sexual Fetishes and Kinks

(AskMen) 10 Common Sexual Fetishes and Kinks

"There's always going to be a risk to being vulnerable and sharing a sexual fantasy with a partner, because you aren't sure how it's going to be received." - Kenneth Play Read the full article 10 Common Sexual Fetishes and Kinks That Turn People On by Alex Manley for...

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(Men’s Health) What Is Medical Fetishism?

(Men’s Health) What Is Medical Fetishism?

“At one play party I watched someone inject saline into someone else’s balls until they were as big as a small cantaloupe, and then this person walked around the party with these huge swollen balls for a while.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article What Is Medical...

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(Women’s Health) What Is Breath Play?

(Women’s Health) What Is Breath Play?

This is an area of sex play where "education should precede experience". - Kenneth Play Read the full article What Is Breath Play? Experts Explain Why The Sexual Activity Is So Dangerous by Caroline Shannon-Karasik for Women's Health. 

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(Inside Hook) Why You Should Let Your Partner Tie You Up

(Inside Hook) Why You Should Let Your Partner Tie You Up

​​“You don’t know if you’ll like something until you try it. And, even if you don’t enjoy it, you will gain a lot of knowledge from experiencing the other side of this dynamic." - Kenneth Play Read the full article Why You Should Let Your Partner Tie You Up by Kayla...

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(Greatist) Starter Guide to BDSM

(Greatist) Starter Guide to BDSM

“Through kink I learned to own my power and found my voice. This helped me build my self-esteem and confidence in the boardroom and the bedroom.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article Starter Guide to BDSM: Rules, Core Values, and Words You Should Know on Greatist For...

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(InsideHook) Why Does Fear Make Us Horny?

(InsideHook) Why Does Fear Make Us Horny?

If the horror movie happened in real life, we would not be getting ready to bang. It’s the fact that these are ‘safe dangers’ that is arousing. It is the balance between the two that is hot.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article Why Does Fear Make Us Horny? By Gigi...

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“Good kink allows us a space to play pretend and live out our fantasies.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article The ‘SM’ in BDSM: Why Are People Into Sadomasochism? By Gigi Engle for O Diaries

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(AskMen) Engaging in Choking During Sex

(AskMen) Engaging in Choking During Sex

“It may give a feeling of power, control and being frightening,” - Kenneth Play Read the full article Engaging in Choking During Sex That’s Consensual and Pleasurable by Alex Manley for AskMen

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