“Most women would strongly prefer to be with an incredibly confident Kevin Hart than a cripplingly insecure Rock” - Kenneth Play Read the full article This Woman Just Put a Condom on Her Leg to Prove a Point About Penis Size by Phillip Ellis for Men's Health...
"There’s a cultural expectation that men should want sex all the time, and when a man struggles with his turn-ons or libido, there’s a lot of stigma and shame that often goes with it" - Kenneth Play Read the full article How to Turn a Guy On by Albert Wagner for Verve...
"For every person out there that thought they were supposed to just be “naturally good at sex,” this book [Beyond Satisfied] aims (and delivers) to prove that great sexual partners are made, not born. A combination of science and experience, this book is aimed at men...
“Even if there are two penises in the room, that doesn’t mean it needs to be penis-focused” - Kenneth Play Read the full article for all Kenneth's Tips! How to Have the Best Threesome With 2 Tops and 1 Bottom by Suzannah Weiss for Vice
“One of the key findings in sex research is that responsive desire produces far greater results in getting people in the mood." - Kenneth Play Read more about firing up your bedroom in the full article Americans aren't having sex, but the reasons why are complicated...
Read Your Everything-to-Know Guide to Blow Jobs by Emma Glassman Hughes and the Editors for Cosmopolitan
"In the bathroom, Play said he slapped his penis in a desperate attempt to get an erection. When he realized it wouldn't happen, Play decided it would be the last time he would let his fear of embarrassment ruin sex. In that moment I thought, 'If this is my worst...
In this excerpt of his new book 'Beyond Satisfied,' the renowned sex hacker shares life-changing tips for using what you've got. "SIZE MATTERS, but not in the way you think it does." Read the full Men's Health article How Sex Hacker Kenneth Play Learned to Love His...
“Having money, physical fitness and attractiveness does not translate to good sexual experiences,” says Play. “You could be a freaking Jeff Bezos, but it doesn’t mean that you’re automatically the GOAT in the bedroom if you are a GOAT in the boardroom.” - Kenneth Play...
“Spit-roasting describes a threesome where a receiving partner is being penetrated both orally and either anally or vaginally simultaneously,” - Kenneth Play Read the full article Spit-Roasting Isn't Just for Porn Stars. Here's How to Do It. by Zachary Zane for Men's...
Read my recommendations in 8 Sex Positions That’ll Make You a Rim Job Pro by Jill Hamilton for Cosmopolitan
I teach you all about my clit-clock method in the article 11 New Ways to Stimulate Your Partner's Clitoris by Ro White and Zach Zane for Men’s Health! Want to learn more in depth? Check out my Sex Hacker Pro Course!
"Step one is getting comfortable with sex yourself." - Kenneth Play Read the full article Supercharge Your Sexting by Figuring Out Your Lust Language by Alex Manley for AskMen
"If both people are clear that they want to transition to a friendship, this should be relatively easy." - Kenneth Play Read the full article How to Stay Friends With Your Ex by Alex Manley for AskMen.
“I think that the sex tech is headed towards some big breakthroughs in the next few years. For instance, I think that technology that uses machine learning to ID someone’s sexual preference, patterns, and frequency will become more common." - Kenneth Play Read the...
“The stigma of masturbation is still prevalent outside of cities and sex-positive epicenters.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article It’s Time We — Or Really You, and Your Partner — Had a Talk About Masturbation by Kayla Kibbe for InsideHook
“Learning to experience this [prostate orgasm] can transform your relationship to your body and even help you understand female pleasure far more deeply." - Kenneth Play To learn all about prostate orgasms, read the full article If You’re Not Having Prostate Orgasms,...
“There’s an eastern philosophy of balance, of duality, of interplay between light and shadow. Sometimes I think we need to be selfish, and sometimes we need to be selfless. That balance is key.” - Kenneth Play Learn everything you need to know about metamours in the...
"Many men hold themselves to standards that are not only unrealistic, but entirely mythical. The idea that a man’s erection should never falter is not very different from the damaging misconception that men should never cry. We’re told to get our shit together, man...
“Aftercare is definitely not just for BDSM scenes or sex. It’s also something that should be done in casual sex, in my opinion.” - Kenneth Play Read more about aftercare in the article 'Aftercare' Is The BDSM Practice We Should Use For Vanilla Sex, Too by Kelsey...
Zumio the Perfect Pleasure Mapping Tool While it’s good to understand the commonalities of female physiology and master some basic techniques, there comes a time in your journey as a lover when you begin to realize just how different each woman is from the next. Not...
There are a number of barriers that might keep you from living your best sex life. If it’s a lack of communication with your partner, simple directions like faster, slower, harder, softer, up, down, etc. can make a huge difference between so-so sex and bad sex or...
How do you and your partner get into it? KP: The partner on the bottom should raise their hips into a bridge position, like in yoga. You can use props such as pillows (a wedge would work well here), if it’s too hard to stay like that for too long without them, or just...
"It feels better to some people physically or emotionally. The act of removing a barrier between you can be symbolic of removing emotional barriers in some cases.” - Kenneth Play Read more about fluid bonding in the article What Is Fluid Bonding and How Can You Make...
"It’s super important to note that not only is enthusiastic consent an absolute must... many of these acts can be super dangerous, especially breath play." - Kenneth Play Educate yourself before engaging in edge play! Read the full article by Rachel Varena in...
"If you want a cock ring that allows nonstop clit vibration, international sex educator and creator of the Sex Hacker Pro Series Kenneth Play suggests the NŌS. The flexible ring has a two-pronged design that squeezes the clit between it (in a good way) and provides...
If you’re new to anal hooks, “one you can switch out with the with different sizes of plugs on the end to get different sizes.” Start with the smallest plug on the end, and work your way up from there." - Kenneth Play Read the full article by Zachary Zane on Men's...
"Use the flat of your tongue instead of just the tip. This provides a larger surface area that’s easier to control. “You can stick your tongue out flat and move your tongue, or keep your tongue still and move your head up and down. Varying between the two will save...
“Fingering her and licking her clit at the same time is the bread and butter of most women’s sexual pleasure.” - Kenneth Play Read This 4-Week Plan Will Perfect Your Oral Sex Skills by Gigi Engle for Men’s Health
Good sexual communication is not only an ideal worth striving for. There’s some biological, neurological basis for it. When it comes to sex, there’s both inhibitory and excitatory systems at play. (This concept was popularized by Emily Nagoski in her book Come as You...
"There's always going to be a risk to being vulnerable and sharing a sexual fantasy with a partner, because you aren't sure how it's going to be received." - Kenneth Play Read the full article 10 Common Sexual Fetishes and Kinks That Turn People On by Alex Manley for...
“At one play party I watched someone inject saline into someone else’s balls until they were as big as a small cantaloupe, and then this person walked around the party with these huge swollen balls for a while.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article What Is Medical...
Yeah, there is probably at least a little pee in squirt. Does it matter? Not really! Read the full article Is It Real or Just Pee? The Unnecessarily Complicated Squirting Debate, Explained by Gigi Engle for InsideHook
"The Venus Butterfly allows more than one erogenous zone to be tuned on, which can make for a better orgasm." - Kenneth Play Read the full article The ‘Venus Butterfly’ Is Hailed As The Best Sex Technique Of All Time — Does It Live Up To The Hype? by Katie...
“Instagram is not a dating app, so you shouldn’t treat it like one." - Kenneth Play Read the full article Instagram Flirting Rules by Alex Manley for AskMen
"We can tell a lot about someone’s character through how they kiss.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article How to Be the Best Kisser You Can Be by Alex Manley for AskMen
“Contrary to popular belief, and to what is depicted in porn, most women prefer a much broader array of activities than simply hard and long pounding with a penis.” - Kenneth Play There’s a ton of talk in the popular media about “lasting longer in bed”. But most of...
“You don't necessarily need a hard cock to have an orgasm.” - Kenneth Play There are many biological causes for erectile dysfunction, but what I specialize in is psychological ED. In this case, there is no problem with vasocongestion or any other biological issue, but...
“Whether or not this experience works for you depends a lot on both people’s height and size.” - Kenneth Play The 13 Best Positions to Have Sex Standing Up by Zachary Zane for Men’s Health
On this Valentine's Day I want to embody the art of giving pleasure. In our world of screens, we don't often spend intentional, whole-heartedly connected time with the people we love. We poke fun at memes like "forget flowers, find my G-spot", but people really do...
Don't let the idea of multiple orgasms exhaust you! I'll never get tired of talking about and teaching the art of making her cum over and over again. It is always a privilege to with Erika Lust whether it's for your viewing pleasure or for sex education. (Let's be...
Is it possible? It is! And is much easier with this brand new breakthrough in cock ring design! German engineering has cracked the code. Since forever, every cock ring has consistently failed to reach the clitoris. The Fun Factory made NŌS which is perfectly designed...
There is very limited science on squirting, which my colleague Dr. Zhana has sifted through extensively while working on the Science of Squirting video (check it out on my Youtube!) for my online course. Dr. Zhana and I also talked squirting together on an episode of...
Men’s Health talked with me about how I became Kenneth Play: Sex Hacker, in their newest article. It covers my career journey, how I came to teach sex skills, and shows how my personal transformation influenced my teaching style. Growing up as an awkward Asian...
“If you’re going to have a lot of car sex, don’t wing it. Plan ahead!” - Kenneth Play Read the full article 8 Tips for Better Car Sex by Zachary Zane for Men’s Health
"I hope that as sex work continues to be destigmatized for sex workers, it is for women as recipients as well.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article 7 Underreported Issues Affecting the Future of Sex by Jenna Owsianik for Future of Sex.net
"Death grip” is a term people have coined for a phenomenon where men masturbate with a really tight grip on their penis habitually. It happens because the person gets in the habit of it, either because they are trying to cum as fast as possible and get to bed most of...
“It’s any man’s right to have any boundary he chooses. But it’s also women’s right to decide not to be with someone who doesn’t offer [oral sex, or, really, whatever it is she wants] to her.” Read the full article Actually, It’s Perfectly Fine for Men to Not Want to...
This is an area of sex play where "education should precede experience". - Kenneth Play Read the full article What Is Breath Play? Experts Explain Why The Sexual Activity Is So Dangerous by Caroline Shannon-Karasik for Women's Health.
Before I was a sex educator I was a celebrity personal trainer for 15 years. Just like you don’t want to put effort in at the gym with no gains, there are many times in sex when you want to provide the maximum amount of pleasure for the least amount of effort. Sex...
By Kenneth Play The biggest masturbation myth right now is that using a vibrator can permanently desensitize you, forever. This is a myth that gets perpetuated because some people do experience desensitization of a specific variety because of habitual ways of...
“It’s built into our primal animalistic response to want to have sex outdoors.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article How to Have Sex Outside, Which Is in Your Human Nature by Kayla Kibbe for InsideHook
I have a stripper friend who had a very regular customer who would come in frequently and pay her A LOT of money to suck on his nipples until he ejaculated in his pants, no penile stimulation involved at all. So if you were certain about it, men can ABSOLUTELY orgasm...
“Unspoken insecurity causes a lot of unintended harm for everyone” - Kenneth Play Personally I lived the first 20 years of my life in this anxiety loop about my average sized cock. Thinking that it’s something you can’t change leads to horrible despair about one’s sex...
“You could ask your partner, or a person other than your partner to take charge of the controller. Then as your excitement mounts, you can ask them to do to you what they normally would...kiss you, pull your hair, bite you, command you to orgasm, choke you...or all of...
“With greater risk comes responsibility, and a greater need for a safe word." - Kenneth Play Read the full article Here’s How To Make A Forced Orgasm Happen In BDSM Play by Gabrielle Kassel for Women's Health Mag Or read on for more of my thoughts on forced orgasms:...
“If it’s affecting your life in super negative ways, like you’re masturbating on a work Zoom call and forget to turn off your camera, it’s fairly obvious that it needs to change. If you’re using up all your sexual energy and have nothing to give to your relationship,...
Not sure if you're in the friend zone? I have a couple clear cut conversation starters to help you communicate in these situations. You can read about them in the article Everything You Need to Know About the Friend Zone by Alex Manley for AskMen.
“Imagine you haven’t ridden a bike in a year. You’re probably feeling kind of rusty. You’re trying to enjoy a leisurely bike ride with your date in the middle of Times Square traffic. You might still be able to ride the bike, but this might be a stressful experience...
“Topping from the bottom sometimes happens if someone doesn't trust the Dom and can’t let go." - Kenneth Play Read the full article If You're Topping From the Bottom, You're Doing BDSM Wrong by Zach Zane for Men’s Health
“You don’t know if you’ll like something until you try it. And, even if you don’t enjoy it, you will gain a lot of knowledge from experiencing the other side of this dynamic." - Kenneth Play Read the full article Why You Should Let Your Partner Tie You Up by Kayla...
“Sensory deprivation, sensation, G-spot and clitoral stimulation are such a delicious combo together. When you add a luxurious feel to this, it makes the experience decadent and indulgent, which brings you towards focusing on your senses and being in the moment.” -...
“Through kink I learned to own my power and found my voice. This helped me build my self-esteem and confidence in the boardroom and the bedroom.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article Starter Guide to BDSM: Rules, Core Values, and Words You Should Know on Greatist For...
"If you’ve never been to a sex-positive event and you’re a single guy, don’t go and hit on all the girls." - Kenneth Play Read more on sex positivity and sex parties in the full article Why Men Are Left Out of the Sex Positivity Movement by Gigi Engle for InsideHook...
“Your diet is the foundation of how you feel and perform because a nutritious diet is fuel for your body. And if you want to perform your best in the bedroom (and elsewhere), you’ll want to eat the well-balanced diet full of nutrients and energy [that] your body...
"Not only is cowgirl an option for anal play, but sex educator and self-proclaimed sex-hacker Kenneth Play, also calls it the perfect option. Especially for first-time anal-havers." "He explains: “When you squat, the pelvic floor opens up including the anal muscles he...
“If you have songs that have cheesy lyrics, it can be a total turn-off” - Kenneth Play Read the full article Should You Have a Sex Playlist By Kayla Kibbe for InsideHook
If the horror movie happened in real life, we would not be getting ready to bang. It’s the fact that these are ‘safe dangers’ that is arousing. It is the balance between the two that is hot.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article Why Does Fear Make Us Horny? By Gigi...
In the movies and media, penile/vaginal intercourse is portrayed most commonly as what sex “is”. We don’t see a ton of scenes that revolve around manual sex as an event unto itself. But hand sex is hot and fun for both foreplay and the main act! Here are some of my...
“The foundation for a healthy kink dynamic is that both parties want each other to succeed and win.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article Five of the Most Common Misconceptions About BDSM by Gigi Engle for InsideHook
“Embrace the awkward. You’re a newbie. This is not the time to put extra pressure on yourself. How good you are at the start of something does not dictate how good you can be at something.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article 11 Not-As-Mainstream Kinks You Could Be...
“If you experience pain with penetration or don't enjoy super deep penetration during intercourse, this position can actually be a godsend.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article What Is the Amazon Sex Position and Why Are People Obsessed with It? By Gigi Engle for...
I shared some of my favorite kinky toys for the article BDSM Experts Share Their 19 Favorite Kinky Toys by Zachary Zane for Men’s Health
“Good kink allows us a space to play pretend and live out our fantasies.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article The ‘SM’ in BDSM: Why Are People Into Sadomasochism? By Gigi Engle for O Diaries
Jordyn Taylor and I played twenty questions and I gave her the low down on my personal life! Find out what sex act I think is overrated, my biggest insecurity, and more in the article 'Sex Hacker' Kenneth Play Answers 20 Questions About His Personal Life! By Jordyn...
"This position can provide a mild, prolonged sensation, so you can really draw out the experience.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article Why the Lotus Sex Position Should Be In Your Rotation by Gigi Engle for Shape
"Wherever it is that you meet with the tongues, a good way of doing things is to think of massaging her tongue with yours gently." - Kenneth Play Read the full article How to French Kiss Like a Pro, According to Sex Experts by Jordyn Taylor for Men’s Health
“There are plenty of mental health benefits to be reaped from your favorite solo pastime if you know how to do it right.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article How to Maximize the Mental Health Benefits of Masturbation by Kayla Kibbe for InsideHook
“Don’t be afraid to learn about yourself and others. Be patient with yourself and others and adopt a growth mindset.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article How to Be Great in Bed While Also Satisfying Yourself by Cristina Montemayor for Very Good Light
“Insecurity wreaks havoc in ENM relationships no matter how much your partner offers you reassurance.” - Kenneth Play Read more in the article What Is Ethical Non-Monogamy, and Could It Work for You? By Gabrielle Smith for Shape If you're interested in learning a lot...
“There’s an expectation that it’s easy for guys to come.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article Why Men Are Faking Orgasms, And Why They Shouldn’t by Kayla Kibbe for InsideHook
"Think of your desires and what you’re hoping to achieve beforehand and exchange that information with your partner.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article Expert Tips to Romantic Cyber Sex by Gabrielle Kassel for the CowGirl blog
“I don’t think women are more complicated” - Kenneth Play Read the full article I set out to experience a 90-minute orgasm, but I moved past my body insecurities instead by Suzannah Weiss for HelloGiggles
“Force your partner to have orgasms until they are completely overwhelmed—then keep going,” - Kenneth Play Read the full article 23 Ways to 'Punish' Your Partner During BDSM Sex by Gigi Engle for Men’s Health For more kink tips and lessons, check out my Sex Hacker Pro...
“You don’t need a million different tricks, you just need to find the thing they like.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article 11 New Ways to Stimulate Your Partner's Clitoris by Ro White and Zachary Zane for Men’s Health
“Women aren't avoiding your restaurant because they aren't hungry, they aren't going because the food isn't good. Trust me, women are hungry! You just need to serve something better to find out.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article The Orgasm Gap: What It Is and Why...
“It may give a feeling of power, control and being frightening,” - Kenneth Play Read the full article Engaging in Choking During Sex That’s Consensual and Pleasurable by Alex Manley for AskMen
“Women's brains are more responsive to arousal and stimuli after the first orgasm.” - Kenneth Play How to Satisfy Your Partner After You've Climaxed by Alex Manley for AskMen
“Before you even engage in trying to arouse someone, establish safety.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article How to Arouse a Woman by Alex Manley for AskMen
I talk about consistency a lot, but it is especially crucial for blended orgasms.” - Kenneth Play. Read the full article Blended Orgasms and How to Give Her One by Alex Manley for AskMen
"Foreplay isn't just useful, it's essential for extraordinary, pleasurable sex.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article AskMen's Giant Guide to Foreplay (That She Will Actually Like) by Alex Manley for AskMen
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