(Verve) How To Turn A Guy On

(Verve) How To Turn A Guy On

"There’s a cultural expectation that men should want sex all the time, and when a man struggles with his turn-ons or libido, there’s a lot of stigma and shame that often goes with it" - Kenneth Play Read the full article How to Turn a Guy On by Albert Wagner for Verve...

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(Men’s Health) The 20 Best Books for Your Sex Life

(Men’s Health) The 20 Best Books for Your Sex Life

"For every person out there that thought they were supposed to just be “naturally good at sex,” this book [Beyond Satisfied] aims (and delivers) to prove that great sexual partners are made, not born. A combination of science and experience, this book is aimed at men...

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(Mashable) Americans aren’t having sex

(Mashable) Americans aren’t having sex

“One of the key findings in sex research is that responsive desire produces far greater results in getting people in the mood." - Kenneth Play Read more about firing up your bedroom in the full article Americans aren't having sex, but the reasons why are complicated...

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(InsideHook) The Secrets of an International Sex Hacker

(InsideHook) The Secrets of an International Sex Hacker

“Having money, physical fitness and attractiveness does not translate to good sexual experiences,” says Play. “You could be a freaking Jeff Bezos, but it doesn’t mean that you’re automatically the GOAT in the bedroom if you are a GOAT in the boardroom.” - Kenneth Play...

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(AskMen) How to Stay Friends With Your Ex

(AskMen) How to Stay Friends With Your Ex

"If both people are clear that they want to transition to a friendship, this should be relatively easy." - Kenneth Play Read the full article How to Stay Friends With Your Ex by Alex Manley for AskMen.  

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(InsideHook) Talk About Masturbation

(InsideHook) Talk About Masturbation

“The stigma of masturbation is still prevalent outside of cities and sex-positive epicenters.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article It’s Time We — Or Really You, and Your Partner — Had a Talk About Masturbation by Kayla Kibbe for InsideHook

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(Dame) The Barriers to Orgasm We Often Don’t Recognize

(Dame) The Barriers to Orgasm We Often Don’t Recognize

There are a number of barriers that might keep you from living your best sex life. If it’s a lack of communication with your partner, simple directions like faster, slower, harder, softer, up, down, etc. can make a huge difference between so-so sex and bad sex or...

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Better Sexual Communication

Better Sexual Communication

Good sexual communication is not only an ideal worth striving for. There’s some biological, neurological basis for it. When it comes to sex, there’s both inhibitory and excitatory systems at play. (This concept was popularized by Emily Nagoski in her book Come as You...

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(AskMen) 10 Common Sexual Fetishes and Kinks

(AskMen) 10 Common Sexual Fetishes and Kinks

"There's always going to be a risk to being vulnerable and sharing a sexual fantasy with a partner, because you aren't sure how it's going to be received." - Kenneth Play Read the full article 10 Common Sexual Fetishes and Kinks That Turn People On by Alex Manley for...

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(Men’s Health) What Is Medical Fetishism?

(Men’s Health) What Is Medical Fetishism?

“At one play party I watched someone inject saline into someone else’s balls until they were as big as a small cantaloupe, and then this person walked around the party with these huge swollen balls for a while.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article What Is Medical...

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(InsideHook) Is It Real or Just Pee?

(InsideHook) Is It Real or Just Pee?

Yeah, there is probably at least a little pee in squirt. Does it matter? Not really! Read the full article Is It Real or Just Pee? The Unnecessarily Complicated Squirting Debate, Explained by Gigi Engle for InsideHook

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(Giddy) A Dating Guide for Erecticle Dysfunction

(Giddy) A Dating Guide for Erecticle Dysfunction

“You don't necessarily need a hard cock to have an orgasm.” - Kenneth Play There are many biological causes for erectile dysfunction, but what I specialize in is psychological ED. In this case, there is no problem with vasocongestion or any other biological issue, but...

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Men’s Health: How I Acquired My Orgasmic Wisdom

Men’s Health: How I Acquired My Orgasmic Wisdom

Men’s Health talked with me about how I became Kenneth Play: Sex Hacker, in their newest article. It covers my career journey, how I came to teach sex skills, and shows how my personal transformation influenced my teaching style. Growing up as an awkward Asian...

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(Women’s Health) What Is Breath Play?

(Women’s Health) What Is Breath Play?

This is an area of sex play where "education should precede experience". - Kenneth Play Read the full article What Is Breath Play? Experts Explain Why The Sexual Activity Is So Dangerous by Caroline Shannon-Karasik for Women's Health. 

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(AskMen) How to Talk About Your Feelings of Sexual Inadequacy

(AskMen) How to Talk About Your Feelings of Sexual Inadequacy

“Unspoken insecurity causes a lot of unintended harm for everyone” - Kenneth Play Personally I lived the first 20 years of my life in this anxiety loop about my average sized cock. Thinking that it’s something you can’t change leads to horrible despair about one’s sex...

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(Dame) Is There Such a Thing as Masturbating Too Much?

(Dame) Is There Such a Thing as Masturbating Too Much?

“If it’s affecting your life in super negative ways, like you’re masturbating on a work Zoom call and forget to turn off your camera, it’s fairly obvious that it needs to change. If you’re using up all your sexual energy and have nothing to give to your relationship,...

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(Inside Hook) Why You Should Let Your Partner Tie You Up

(Inside Hook) Why You Should Let Your Partner Tie You Up

​​“You don’t know if you’ll like something until you try it. And, even if you don’t enjoy it, you will gain a lot of knowledge from experiencing the other side of this dynamic." - Kenneth Play Read the full article Why You Should Let Your Partner Tie You Up by Kayla...

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(Men’s Health) 26 Foreplay Tips to Make Sex Even Better

(Men’s Health) 26 Foreplay Tips to Make Sex Even Better

“Sensory deprivation, sensation, G-spot and clitoral stimulation are such a delicious combo together. When you add a luxurious feel to this, it makes the experience decadent and indulgent, which brings you towards focusing on your senses and being in the moment.” -...

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(Greatist) Starter Guide to BDSM

(Greatist) Starter Guide to BDSM

“Through kink I learned to own my power and found my voice. This helped me build my self-esteem and confidence in the boardroom and the bedroom.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article Starter Guide to BDSM: Rules, Core Values, and Words You Should Know on Greatist For...

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(TheBody) How Nutrition Affects Your Sexual Health

(TheBody) How Nutrition Affects Your Sexual Health

“Your diet is the foundation of how you feel and perform because a nutritious diet is fuel for your body. And if you want to perform your best in the bedroom (and elsewhere), you’ll want to eat the well-balanced diet full of nutrients and energy [that] your body...

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(InsideHook) Why Does Fear Make Us Horny?

(InsideHook) Why Does Fear Make Us Horny?

If the horror movie happened in real life, we would not be getting ready to bang. It’s the fact that these are ‘safe dangers’ that is arousing. It is the balance between the two that is hot.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article Why Does Fear Make Us Horny? By Gigi...

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(Dame) A Handy Guide to Hand Sex

(Dame) A Handy Guide to Hand Sex

In the movies and media, penile/vaginal intercourse is portrayed most commonly as what sex “is”. We don’t see a ton of scenes that revolve around manual sex as an event unto itself. But hand sex is hot and fun for both foreplay and the main act! Here are some of my...

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(Shape) What Is the Amazon Sex Position

(Shape) What Is the Amazon Sex Position

“If you experience pain with penetration or don't enjoy super deep penetration during intercourse, this position can actually be a godsend.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article What Is the Amazon Sex Position and Why Are People Obsessed with It? By Gigi Engle for...

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“Good kink allows us a space to play pretend and live out our fantasies.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article The ‘SM’ in BDSM: Why Are People Into Sadomasochism? By Gigi Engle for O Diaries

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"This position can provide a mild, prolonged sensation, so you can really draw out the experience.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article Why the Lotus Sex Position Should Be In Your Rotation by Gigi Engle for Shape

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“Insecurity wreaks havoc in ENM relationships no matter how much your partner offers you reassurance.” - Kenneth Play Read more in the article What Is Ethical Non-Monogamy, and Could It Work for You? By Gabrielle Smith for Shape If you're interested in learning a lot...

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(CowGirl) Expert Tips to Romantic Cyber Sex

(CowGirl) Expert Tips to Romantic Cyber Sex

"Think of your desires and what you’re hoping to achieve beforehand and exchange that information with your partner.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article Expert Tips to Romantic Cyber Sex by Gabrielle Kassel for the CowGirl blog

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(AskMen) The Orgasm Gap

(AskMen) The Orgasm Gap

“Women aren't avoiding your restaurant because they aren't hungry, they aren't going because the food isn't good. Trust me, women are hungry! You just need to serve something better to find out.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article The Orgasm Gap: What It Is and Why...

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(AskMen) Engaging in Choking During Sex

(AskMen) Engaging in Choking During Sex

“It may give a feeling of power, control and being frightening,” - Kenneth Play Read the full article Engaging in Choking During Sex That’s Consensual and Pleasurable by Alex Manley for AskMen

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(AskMen) How to Arouse a Woman

(AskMen) How to Arouse a Woman

“Before you even engage in trying to arouse someone, establish safety.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article How to Arouse a Woman by Alex Manley for AskMen

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(AskMen) AskMen’s Giant Guide to Foreplay

(AskMen) AskMen’s Giant Guide to Foreplay

"Foreplay isn't just useful, it's essential for extraordinary, pleasurable sex.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article AskMen's Giant Guide to Foreplay (That She Will Actually Like) by Alex Manley for AskMen

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Pleasure Mapping / Clit Clock Game

Pleasure Mapping / Clit Clock Game

Pleasure Mapping: Sex Hacking Guide to Navigating the Clit The clitoris is like an iceberg; only a small part of it is exposed, and the majority of it is internal. So it’s not the easiest thing in the world to tell your partner how to touch your vulva, let alone how...

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