“You can ask your partner to show you how she touches her clit. One way is to ask her to masturbate while you watch. But you can also get a sensory experience of her technique by asking her to demonstrate on your hand. Place your thumb between your index and middle fingers, and then curl your hand into a fist. Your thumb can become a model of a clit, and the crease between your index and middle fingers becomes the hood. Ask your partner to rub your hand in the way she likes to be touched, and you’ll be able to get a tactile sense of how she does it.”  – Excerpt from Beyond Satisfied by Kenneth Play, Chapter 5: Pleasure Mapping, Cliteracy