(RideTheCowgirl) How to Use a Cowgirl Sex Machine at an Orgy Party

“You could ask your partner, or a person other than your partner to take charge of the controller. Then as your excitement mounts, you can ask them to do to you what they normally would…kiss you, pull your hair, bite you, command you to orgasm, choke you…or all of the above!.” – Kenneth Play

Read the full article How to Use a Cowgirl Sex Machine at an Orgy Party for Ride the Cowgirl

Or read on for more of Kenneth’s thoughts on play parties:

First thing first, what do voyeurism and exhibitionism mean, exactly?

KP: Voyeurism is when you like watching and exhibitionism means you like showing off, letting people see you engage in sexual activity.

Okay, so… you walk into a sex party and there’s a sex machine… and it’s not currently being ridden… what’s considered polite/impolite here? Can you just hop on it?

KP: It depends on the party. Each party will have their rules. Most of the time they will have sanitizing and barrier supplies for individual use, just like at the doctor’s office. If you’re not sure, the etiquette is to ask one of the staff at the party.

Do you have any tips, specifically for people who are using the machine to receive ANAL pleasure?

KP: If you are doing public anal play on a machine, having porn star level anal cleaning protocols before going to the party might be a great idea. So, giving yourself an enema is always a great idea. And making sure you haven’t eaten a couple hours before the party.

Can you watch? Or, do you need to ask permission from the person riding the toy first?

KP: As mentioned above, different parties might have different etiquette. However, a general rule is to approach it like you see a celebrity at the restaurant. Sometimes it’s very hard not to look, but try not to invade their space while they are having a good time. If your gaze is met with disengagement or bad vibes, either walk away or check in and ask if it is ok to watch, and respect what they say. In general, even if you are welcome to watch, it’s always good to do it from a distance, say 5 feet or so, rather than right next to them. However, given all this, I do want to encourage people to be voyeurs at sex parties where appropriate because the exhibitionists are thirsty for a your gaze.

One beautiful thing about sex parties where exhibition and voyeurism is celebrated is it gives us an opportunity to celebrate our eroticism and desire. Our Hacienda tagline is “where your desires belong”. I think the world needs more permission for pleasure.

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