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Hacienda featured on The Love Drive!

My colleague and amazing friend Lila, of horizontal with Lila, recently was a guest on The Love Drive Show to talk about intentional communities, sex parties, and non-monogamy -- and she gave a shout out to my work too! Sex parties and the…
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Grant Goes on a Mission to Enjoy Shower Sex

Water pouring over skin, hot steam filling the room, massaging touch through soap and suds to find all the right buttons... There's a lot of reasons why shower sex is my favorite, but the reason I like it most is that it becomes a full sensory…
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The Scientific Secret of the Female Orgasm!

My frequent collaborator Dr. Zhana has an amazing podcast that you may know, called The Science of Sex, and I recently re-listened to one of my favorite episodes from the very beginning about the female orgasm and clitoris. In this episode,…
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Embracing Your Desires & the Unapologetic Sexuality

Some of the most rewarding moments from my work with Back to the Body are when women truly embrace not only their desires, but also their own power to ask for those desires and seek them out. It's an embracing of who they are that stands in…
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Kenneth Talks with Tonic about the Elusive Squirt!

Kenneth recently chatted with Tonic writer Grant Stoddard about the real fountains of Bellagio -- squirting. After 15 years of writing about sex, Grant had always wanted to master the skills to bring his partner's to ejaculation, and finally…
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Featured in Vice! "9 Supplies All Good Sex Parties Have"

I'm so excited to see Hacienda's sex party skills featured at Tonic! Check out our tips on the supplies you need on hand to throw a sex party like the pros: "9 Things All Good Sex Party Hosts Will Have on Hand"  
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Your Sexual Freedom is at Risk

My Business Partner Dr.Zhana and I been working on this post. SESTA (Stop Enabling Sex Traffickers Act) and FOSTA (Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act) are two bills that were recently passed by Congress and signed into legislation by President…
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Can We Learn From Porn?

The prevalence of porn and its effect on how we view sexuality as a society has always been a hot topic, and I don’t think it’s going anywhere anytime soon. But you know what else isn’t going anywhere? Porn. The porn industry is always…
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The Best Sex Scenes in Movies

I was thrilled when Olivia Collette reached out to me to comment for this piece for RogerEbert.com about how to make sex scenes that women will like watching. This topic is so important to me, and I love reading what other people in the industry…
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Post-Sex Hacks You Don't Want To Skip

I'm loving this article on Vice I was quoted in about how the concept of aftercare applies to vanilla sex as much as it applies to kink scenes! For those who might not know, aftercare is an essential practice for the kink community to help…