On this Valentine's Day I want to embody the art of giving pleasure. In our world of screens, we don't often spend intentional, whole-heartedly connected time with the people we love. We poke fun at memes like "forget flowers, find my G-spot", but people really do...
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The Lust Ed Video Series: An Explicit Guide to Multiple Orgasms
Don't let the idea of multiple orgasms exhaust you! I'll never get tired of talking about and teaching the art of making her cum over and over again. It is always a privilege to with Erika Lust whether it's for your viewing pleasure or for sex education. (Let's be...
The Scientific Secret of the Female Orgasm!
My frequent collaborator Dr. Zhana has an amazing podcast that you may know, called The Science of Sex, and I recently re-listened to one of my favorite episodes from the very beginning about the female orgasm and clitoris. In this episode, Dr. Zhana and Joe Pardavila...
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Release the Kraken
"Finally, if your partner likes this so far and you feel she’d enjoy some more intense sensations, I have a move I jokingly call “release the Kraken.” To do this successfully, you’ll need a partner who is willing to fully trust and surrender to her own bodily...
Signature Move For Anal
"The first trick is an extension of what I call my “signature move,” the squirting technique you learned in Chapter Twelve. The principle is exactly the same, but instead of inserting your fingers into the vagina, you insert your fingers into the anus. You’re aiming...
PNF Stretching for Anal
"You can also help your partner stretch her anus just like an athlete would stretch a muscle by using PNF stretching (proprioceptive neuromuscular facilitation). This type of stretching was designed to relax muscle and increase tone or activity. This is the reason I...
45 Degree Angle
"Anything inserted in the butt - whether fingers, a toy, or a penis - feels better when angled upward towards the belly button at a forty-five-degree angle. This forty-five-degree angle rule was popularized by Gigi Engle, an amazing sex educator colleague of mine,...
Reverse Cowgirl
"Have your partner turn to face away, and let her hold your penis to insert it in herself. She can stay upright, or she can give you a fuller view of her vulva by holding your ankles and tilting her butt back. She can give herself stimulation by riding up and down, or...
Cowgirl
The image above shows her gyrating and the image below shows her in more of an up-and-down motion. "In cowgirl, you lay on your back as your partner rides your cock. This is a great position to get comfortable and relax as your part- ner moves in the ways that feel...
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