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Featured in Vice! "9 Supplies All Good Sex Parties Have"

I'm so excited to see Hacienda's sex party skills featured at Tonic!Check out our tips on the supplies you need on hand to throw a sex party like the pros: "9 Things All Good Sex Party Hosts Will Have on Hand" 
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Your Sexual Freedom is at Risk

My Business Partner Dr.Zhana and I been working on this post.SESTA (Stop Enabling Sex Traffickers Act) and FOSTA (Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act) are two bills that were recently passed by Congress and signed into legislation by President…
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Can We Learn From Porn?

The prevalence of porn and its effect on how we view sexuality as a society has always been a hot topic, and I don’t think it’s going anywhere anytime soon.But you know what else isn’t going anywhere? Porn.The porn industry is always…
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The Best Sex Scenes in Movies

I was thrilled when Olivia Collette reached out to me to comment for this piece for RogerEbert.com about how to make sex scenes that women will like watching. This topic is so important to me, and I love reading what other people in the industry…
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Post-Sex Hacks You Don't Want To Skip

I'm loving this article on Vice I was quoted in about how the concept of aftercare applies to vanilla sex as much as it applies to kink scenes!For those who might not know, aftercare is an essential practice for the kink community to help…
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Bringing Sex Coaching to China

I'm breaking into the Chinese market! Goddess Temple has done a really fun piece with me for their readers (article is in Chinese). Because such a big part of my own sexual journey involved overcoming stereotypes directed towards Asian…
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Unraveling Female Promiscuity

I was honored to join Wednesday Martin, PhD (author of the upcoming Untrue, on female lust and infidelity)  and MacKenzie Peck (Feminist Pornographer, Math Magazine) on the Future of Sex podcast, talking all about female…
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How Do I Get My Girlfriend To Do Anal?

Time Out New York just featured me and some other awesome sex-positive people in New York City for our work!I talk a bit about my Squirting PlayLab What’s the most in-demand class you teach? The most popular one I host focuses on female…
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Vaginal vs. Clitoral Orgasms

When it comes to female pleasure, there's a lot of talk about different types of orgasms. There are many accounts from women who've had orgasms from stimulating their nipples, cervix, and even earlobes! But a lot of the conversation centers…
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Is Your Penis Good Enough?

The Post just released this interview with me about my top 5 sex hacks for loving the penis you have!This interview was challenging, because the Post kept pushing towards this narrative that your cock is not big enough, so here are some…