"In the bathroom, Play said he slapped his penis in a desperate attempt to get an erection. When he realized it wouldn't happen, Play decided it would be the last time he would let his fear of embarrassment ruin sex. In that moment I thought, 'If this is my worst...
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(Men’s Health) How Sex Hacker Kenneth Play Learned to Love His Average-Sized Penis
In this excerpt of his new book 'Beyond Satisfied,' the renowned sex hacker shares life-changing tips for using what you've got. "SIZE MATTERS, but not in the way you think it does." Read the full Men's Health article How Sex Hacker Kenneth Play Learned to Love His...
(InsideHook) The Secrets of an International Sex Hacker
“Having money, physical fitness and attractiveness does not translate to good sexual experiences,” says Play. “You could be a freaking Jeff Bezos, but it doesn’t mean that you’re automatically the GOAT in the bedroom if you are a GOAT in the boardroom.” - Kenneth Play...
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“Is my penis big enough?” and other common sex questions answered
Sex. I often think it's funny that the word for why we do almost anything in life—not to mention the reason we are here in the first place—is this monosyllabic, three-letter word. Sex's importance in our lives makes it something we ruminate upon so much that,...
7 orgasm myths, busted
One of the incredible upsides to learning more about sexual technique and experience is that we can train ourselves to help us become more receptive to pleasure. For people who have a hard time orgasming, this is great news—we can build this capacity with deliberate...
Aftercare—because sex ain’t over ’til it’s over
I recently wrote a blog post about how the BDSM community has devised communication protocols that aren't just for kink. These conventions have incredible utility in even the most vanilla sex play and transform a mediocre sex life into a stellar one. I'm talking about...
What kink can teach us about communication
This blog post has the potential to make your sex life at least fifty shades better. Why? Because the protocols I'm about to introduce you to have been tested by the good folks over at the bleeding edge of sexual expression—the kink community. Because kinksters engage...
(Inside Hook) If You’re Not Having Prostate Orgasms, You’re Missing Out
“Learning to experience this [prostate orgasm] can transform your relationship to your body and even help you understand female pleasure far more deeply." - Kenneth Play To learn all about prostate orgasms, read the full article If You’re Not Having Prostate Orgasms,...
(Cosmopolitan) Metamours: Everything to Know About Your Lover’s Lover
“There’s an eastern philosophy of balance, of duality, of interplay between light and shadow. Sometimes I think we need to be selfish, and sometimes we need to be selfless. That balance is key.” - Kenneth Play Learn everything you need to know about metamours in the...
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