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7 orgasm myths, busted

7 orgasm myths, busted

One of the incredible upsides to learning more about sexual technique and experience is that we can train ourselves to help us become more receptive to pleasure.  For people who have a hard time orgasming, this is great news—we can build this capacity with deliberate...

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Aftercare—because sex ain’t over ’til it’s over

Aftercare—because sex ain’t over ’til it’s over

I recently wrote a blog post about how the BDSM community has devised communication protocols that aren't just for kink. These conventions have incredible utility in even the most vanilla sex play and transform a mediocre sex life into a stellar one. I'm talking about...

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What kink can teach us about communication

What kink can teach us about communication

This blog post has the potential to make your sex life at least fifty shades better. Why? Because the protocols I'm about to introduce you to have been tested by the good folks over at the bleeding edge of sexual expression—the kink community. Because kinksters engage...

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Better Sexual Communication

Better Sexual Communication

Good sexual communication is not only an ideal worth striving for. There’s some biological, neurological basis for it. When it comes to sex, there’s both inhibitory and excitatory systems at play. (This concept was popularized by Emily Nagoski in her book Come as You...

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(AskMen) 10 Common Sexual Fetishes and Kinks

(AskMen) 10 Common Sexual Fetishes and Kinks

"There's always going to be a risk to being vulnerable and sharing a sexual fantasy with a partner, because you aren't sure how it's going to be received." - Kenneth Play Read the full article 10 Common Sexual Fetishes and Kinks That Turn People On by Alex Manley for...

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(Men’s Health) What Is Medical Fetishism?

(Men’s Health) What Is Medical Fetishism?

“At one play party I watched someone inject saline into someone else’s balls until they were as big as a small cantaloupe, and then this person walked around the party with these huge swollen balls for a while.” - Kenneth Play Read the full article What Is Medical...

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(InsideHook) Is It Real or Just Pee?

(InsideHook) Is It Real or Just Pee?

Yeah, there is probably at least a little pee in squirt. Does it matter? Not really! Read the full article Is It Real or Just Pee? The Unnecessarily Complicated Squirting Debate, Explained by Gigi Engle for InsideHook

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