(Men’s Health) All Your Questions on Nipple Play for Men, Answered

I have a stripper friend who had a very regular customer who would come in frequently and pay her A LOT of money to suck on his nipples until he ejaculated in his pants, no penile stimulation involved at all. So if you were certain about it, men can ABSOLUTELY orgasm from nipple play. This same woman has told me that there are a huge number of men that strippers call “nipple guys” who come in especially to have women play with their nipples. The reason why this likely occurs more in sex work environments than in real life is because many people don’t realize that this is something that certain men love so much, or think it’s a sign of femininity. But yes, it’s definitely a thing. And those that like it REALLY like it.

The best ways of stimulating nipples are lips, tongue, and fingers. You can also massage someone’s chest with oil and then begin to focus in on the nipples. I have experimented with vibrators, suction toys, and even rope bondage or nipple clamps (clothespins work in a pinch, pun intended) for those who like intense stimulation. All of this depends on what kind of simulation and psychological context your partner enjoys. 

Are they more of a sub and want to be tortured by you putting nipple clamps on them and telling them you don’t care if it hurts (safe word discussed first of course)? Or are they the sensual type that wants to be brushed all over with a feather and then slowly have you run your fingers ever so gently over the nipples? 

What I call “pleasure calibration”, knowing how to read the signs and signals of your partner and calibrate to their unique body and feedback style, are the key concepts here, just like they are for every sexual act. I go over these ideas in my Sex Hacker Pro Course, and while this course is geared mostly towards female pleasure, many of the ideas I present can be applied to men as well.

If you want to introduce nipple play to your sex life, I think it always works best to open up the conversation with a little bit of a softer touch. Preparing your partner by saying something like “Hey, there’s a sexual idea I’d like to explore. Would you be open to hearing about it? If so, when’s a good time?”. These conversations are usually best held OUTSIDE the bedroom initially if this is something you’re nervous about, since getting too nervous is the number one boner-killer.

We need to move beyond these ridiculous outdated ideas that there are areas of men’s bodies that are “feminine” or “make you gay”. It’s time to explore the entire male body and every erogenous zone we have. It will make you a better lover, understand your female partners better, and WAY increase the amount of pleasure you can have. If you’re nervous about it, try it alone first. But don’t get so hung up on fear that you separate yourself from your own body. Knowing your own pleasure is a human right! – Kenneth Play

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