My Sex Life is Spread All Over the NY Post!

There’s nothing like waking up on a Sunday morning to see your sex life spread in a print newspaper! So I dropped everything (pants included) to share this exciting piece from the NY Post about Hacienda! As you probably know, Hacienda Villa is the sex-positive intentional community that I co-founded and live in. It was … Read more

Fighting for Sexual Freedom 2017

What a week Dr. Zhana and I had participating at Naughty in Nawlins with over 2,000 attendees! Looking back on one of our favorite events of the week, the Sexual Freedom March, we were reminded of the progress made for LGBTQIA rights. 10 years ago, we couldn’t imagine one of the most powerful corporations in the world, … Read more

What is it Like to Build a Sex House?

Narrative.ly recently did a feature on Hacienda Villa, the sex-positive intentional community that I co-founded with Andrew Sparksfire. The piece really got me thinking about my personal path to becoming involved with the Villa, which I don’t think I’ve shared on my blog before. What started out as a passion project, helping my friend Andrew … Read more