Sex Hacks for All! featured in Hustler Magazine by T.S. Farley

You want to know the truth of why I do what I do? Why I teach explicit sex education? And more specifically why I cater towards cis straight men to please cis straight women? Because it had never been done before and when I had questions about how to please women I was not in … Read more

Hacienda featured on The Love Drive!

My colleague and amazing friend Lila, of horizontal with Lila, recently was a guest on The Love Drive Show to talk about intentional communities, sex parties, and non-monogamy — and she gave a shout out to my work too! Sex parties and the sex positive community can be somewhat intimidating when you first decide to … Read more

My Sex Life is Spread All Over the NY Post!

There’s nothing like waking up on a Sunday morning to see your sex life spread in a print newspaper! So I dropped everything (pants included) to share this exciting piece from the NY Post about Hacienda! As you probably know, Hacienda Villa is the sex-positive intentional community that I co-founded and live in. It was … Read more

What is it Like to Build a Sex House?

Narrative.ly recently did a feature on Hacienda Villa, the sex-positive intentional community that I co-founded with Andrew Sparksfire. The piece really got me thinking about my personal path to becoming involved with the Villa, which I don’t think I’ve shared on my blog before. What started out as a passion project, helping my friend Andrew … Read more