Hacienda featured on The Love Drive!

My colleague and amazing friend Lila, of horizontal with Lila, recently was a guest on The Love Drive Show to talk about intentional communities, sex parties, and non-monogamy — and she gave a shout out to my work too! Sex parties and the sex positive community can be somewhat intimidating when you first decide to … Read more

What is it Like to Build a Sex+ House?

Narrative.ly recently did a feature on Hacienda Villa, the sex-positive intentional community that I co-founded with Andrew Sparksfire. The piece really got me thinking about my personal path to becoming involved with the Villa, which I don’t think I’ve shared on my blog before. What started out as a passion project, helping my friend Andrew … Read more

What Goes On At A Sex House: My Podcast Interview with Dr. Jess!

Toronto’s Dr. Jess interviewed me on her on her Sex with Dr. Jess podcast! We talked about what goes down at the Hacienda Villa, the sex-positive intentional community I co-founded. Dr. Zhana joined me to share a Sex Hack on dealing with last minute date cancellations! Check out the podcast here: What Goes On At A Sex … Read more

Thrillist calls Hacienda Villa and my PlayLabs one of the top places to explore sex in NYC!

After publishing the article featuring the gangbang gift I helped bring to life, Thrillist surprised me with a shoutout to Hacienda Villa and my PlayLabs in an article about taking sex outside the bedroom in New York. The article, “The Best Underground Sex Clubs and Parties to Explore in NYC,” said it best: “Seventh-grade sex ed … Read more

Ethical Slut Social Live Videos!

For those of you who missed the Ethical Slut Social, check out the three-part video below! “PolyTalks and Wry Relationships” are guided open forums in a Q&A format. They explore Consensual Non-monogamy, Mono-Amory, Polyamory, Relationship Anarchy, DADT, swingers, BDSM, casual sex, non-exclusive dating, threesomes, and anything outside the realms of traditional monogamous heteronormativity. On September … Read more