Fighting for Sexual Freedom 2017

What a week Dr. Zhana and I had participating at Naughty in Nawlins with over 2,000 attendees! Looking back on one of our favorite events of the week, the Sexual Freedom March, we were reminded of the progress made for LGBTQIA rights. 10 years ago, we couldn’t imagine one of the most powerful corporations in the world, … Read more

What is it Like to Build a Sex House?

Narrative.ly recently did a feature on Hacienda Villa, the sex-positive intentional community that I co-founded with Andrew Sparksfire. The piece really got me thinking about my personal path to becoming involved with the Villa, which I don’t think I’ve shared on my blog before. What started out as a passion project, helping my friend Andrew … Read more

What Goes On At A Sex House: My Podcast Interview with Dr. Jess!

Toronto’s Dr. Jess interviewed me on her on her Sex with Dr. Jess podcast! We talked about what goes down at the Hacienda Villa, the sex-positive intentional community I co-founded. Dr. Zhana joined me to share a Sex Hack on dealing with last minute date cancellations! Check out the podcast here: What Goes On At A Sex … Read more

Polyamory and Millennials

I was quoted recently in a piece for AvvoStories on millennials and polyamory. Personally, I’m just on the cusp of what most people would consider a “millennial.” I don’t think that has contributed to my interest in polyamory, but I do think that the ability to spread things to a larger audience has contributed to … Read more

Thrillist calls Hacienda Villa and my PlayLabs one of the top places to explore sex in NYC!

After publishing the article featuring the gangbang gift I helped bring to life, Thrillist surprised me with a shoutout to Hacienda Villa and my PlayLabs in an article about taking sex outside the bedroom in New York. The article, “The Best Underground Sex Clubs and Parties to Explore in NYC,” said it best: “Seventh-grade sex ed … Read more