Squirting Secrets Shared!

There is very limited science on squirting, which my colleague Dr. Zhana has sifted through extensively while working on the Science of Squirting video (check it out on my Youtube!) for my online course. Dr. Zhana and I also talked squirting together on an episode of her Science of Sex Podcast — combining her academic … Read more

Epic Romantic Sex Hack (Free Tutorial on Pornhub)

a photo of Kenneth performing the Goddess Bath ritual

On this Valentine’s Day I want to embody the art of giving pleasure. In our world of screens, we don’t often spend intentional, whole-heartedly connected time with the people we love. We poke fun at memes like “forget flowers, find my G-spot”, but people really do value effort and being seen. I want to help … Read more

#41 of the Best Sex Advice Blogs!

KP blog #41 on list of top 50 sex advice blogs

I recently had the honor of this blog being listed in the Top 50 Sex Advice Blogs of 2019! I’m so glad that people enjoy the advice I give and stories I tell here, especially since many of them are important to me too.  In case you’re new to my site, or you don’t often … Read more

The Science Behind Common Roleplaying Scenarios

Have you ever felt intrigued by living out a fantasy or experiencing a shift in dynamics with your partner? While some may feel these interests are taboo, the desire to roleplay in the bedroom is a very common and healthy one. It taps into instincts through the experience of “safe danger”: the exciting physiological reaction … Read more

The Only 3 Sex Toys to Use, According to an Aficionado

I take great pride in the amount of sex toys I’ve tested and love, but there is one man who’s even more passionate about toys than me: my friend Grant Stoddard. Grant has been attending my workshops and writing about me for a while now, and that coupled with his love of trying new things … Read more