The Patriotic Power of Sex and Fireworks

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It’s finally the Fourth of July— loud explosive fireworks and bright, beautiful colors of assorted flares fill the summer air, leaving you with feelings of thrill and elation. These excitements aren’t just limited to the eyes and ears, however. The stimulation of fireworks electrifies your parasympathetic nervous system, the root of your sexual arousal, as … Read more

How to Talk Dirty (and avoid awkwardness)

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HuffPost has started an amazing new series that I’m so excited for!! Sex Ed for Grown-Ups will tackle everything you didn’t learn about sex in school — beyond the birds and the bees. And I’m even more excited to be featured in one of their first articles to announce the new series — “How To Talk … Read more

Sex Geek Summer Camp

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It’s been quite a journey giving up a successful fitness education career and diving into sex education professionally. Looking back at 2014, I was full of hesitation and fear of a life-altering career choice. But I can whole-heartedly say that attending the first Sex Geek Summer Camp and meeting Reid Mihalko gave me the confidence, … Read more

Ejaculation Etiquette

Sexual communication is about more than just arousal and preferences — sometimes it’s also about the climax experience. Alex Manley and I recently talked about this often overlooked topic for Ask Men’s article Ejaculation Etiquette: Where to Cum and What to Do After. Now, of course, if you’re using a condom with your sexual partner, this … Read more

5 Tips For Pleasing People With Vulvas

Regardless of gender, all of us our robbed of a comprehensive sex education, especially around pleasure. That’s why I decided to turn the “elusive” topic of female pleasure into practical sex education courses and advice, that people could take action on immediately. Only one in four cisgender women regularly report orgasming during penetrative intercourse,  but we … Read more

Sex Positions to be a Rim Job Pro

I get a lot of questions about anal play. Like, a lot. And besides recommending that you get good at everything else first, my second piece of top advice is that you follow the ranks of anal play and prep: rub, lick, finger, dick. Rub the outside of the anal entry to relax your partner and … Read more

The Only 3 Sex Toys to Use, According to an Aficionado

I take great pride in the amount of sex toys I’ve tested and love, but there is one man who’s even more passionate about toys than me: my friend Grant Stoddard. Grant has been attending my workshops and writing about me for a while now, and that coupled with his love of trying new things … Read more

The 1st Ever World Love Summit!

Imagine walking into your next Swinger Party with complete confidence that the night is going to go great! Everyone you talk to you get along with. You have more ‘options’ then you’ve ever had before. Even your partner is thanking you for crafting such a magical experience that you know will strengthen your relationship. Those … Read more

The Top 3 Qualities of an Amazing Lover

Ah, the eternal question: what will make me the best lover? The sex advice industry is full of answers, some more legitimate than others. But let’s clear the air right away: the answer isn’t a steel erection, magical endurance, or a porn-start penis — as I say in my trailer, it’s more about confidence and … Read more

Tips for a Kinkier New Year

New year, new you, new sex life? Whether better sex officially made your Resolution list, or you’re looking to bring joy to January, it’s always fun to try something new in the bedroom. HuffPost recently interviewed me and other fantastic sex educators for new things to explore this year. Check it out here! In particular, … Read more