Are Men Inherently Selfish in Bed? Lessons from Jordan Peterson

By:  Kenneth Play (as told to T.S.Farley) If there’s one thing we can all agree to in this current culture, it’s that men suck, right?  “Boo men!” and “Down with the patriarchy!” and “Off with their dicks!”, right?  Given that reality, when looking at the “orgasm gap” that exists today—ie, the discrepancy between how often … Read more

Sex Ed in Pop Culture: So She’s Wants to be Called a Dirty Slut?

I love seeing more and more conversations about sex in pop culture. Sex isn’t always sexy especially if you’re a teenager or new to exploring your sexuality. That’s why I had to take a look at the Netflix series ‘Sex Education’. In the episode they cover the very real awkwardness that can come with introducing … Read more

A Little Death Podcast with Alana Heiss

I recently was lucky to re-connect with my friend Alana Heiss, and join her on her podcast “A Little Death”! Alana is the amazing author of my GQ feature and an amazing human. We chatted about my new Sex Hacker Pro Course, the ways we want to change sex education and spread pleasure, and what … Read more

Men’s Health: How I Acquired My Orgasmic Wisdom

Men’s Health talked with me about how I became Kenneth Play: Sex Hacker, in their newest article. It covers my career journey, how I came to teach sex skills, and shows how my personal transformation influenced my teaching style. Growing up as an awkward Asian immigrant with an average sized cock meant that I never … Read more

Course Review: The Sex Ed Teacher You Never Had

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Sex education in schools (and often from our parents/care-takers) is really bad. There’s honestly no nice way to put it: sex ed for most of us sucked. And we’ve probably spent most of our adult lives trying to overcome these deficiencies. When we become sexually active, most of us know nothing about anatomy let alone … Read more