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Ejaculation Etiquette

Sexual communication is about more than just arousal and preferences -- sometimes it's also about the climax experience. Alex Manley and I recently talked about this often overlooked topic for Ask Men's article Ejaculation Etiquette: Where…
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5 Tips For Pleasing People With Vulvas

Regardless of gender, all of us our robbed of a comprehensive sex education, especially around pleasure. That's why I decided to turn the "elusive" topic of female pleasure into practical sex education courses and advice, that people could take…
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Sex Positions to be a Rim Job Pro

I get a lot of questions about anal play. Like, a lot. And besides recommending that you get good at everything else first, my second piece of top advice is that you follow the ranks of anal play and prep: rub, lick, finger, dick. Rub the outside…
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Kenneth Talks with Tonic about the Elusive Squirt!

Kenneth recently chatted with Tonic writer Grant Stoddard about the real fountains of Bellagio -- squirting. After 15 years of writing about sex, Grant had always wanted to master the skills to bring his partner's to ejaculation, and finally…
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Can We Learn From Porn?

The prevalence of porn and its effect on how we view sexuality as a society has always been a hot topic, and I don’t think it’s going anywhere anytime soon. But you know what else isn’t going anywhere? Porn. The porn industry is always…
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Post-Sex Hacks You Don't Want To Skip

I'm loving this article on Vice I was quoted in about how the concept of aftercare applies to vanilla sex as much as it applies to kink scenes! For those who might not know, aftercare is an essential practice for the kink community to help…
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Pleasure Mapping: Sex Hacking Guide to Navigating the Clit

The clitoris is like an iceberg; only a small part of it is exposed, and the majority of it is internal. So it's not the easiest thing in the world to tell your partner how to touch your vulva, let alone how to find and stimulate your g-spot. There's…
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100,000 Views on Pornhub!

Remember all the exciting press coverage about Pornhub's new sex ed site? I’m really proud to be a contributor to this project. I want to make sex ed as accessible as porn, and collaborating with Pornhub as a one-stop shop for both…
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Koala Orgasm: Put a ring on it

Fear is one of the most common responses from men when I encourage them to incorporate toys into their playtime. Men often have the false belief that if they incorporate toys in play, they're incompetent or can't satisfy a woman without the…
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Free Video Tutorial for Blended Squirting Orgasms!

I spoke to Santa, and I heard you’ve been naughty all year. But I pulled some strings, and I was able to get your name back on the (sexy) gift list. Ready for your Christmas present? FREE SEX HACKING INSTRUCTIONAL VIDEO! I’m giving…