Level Up Your Clit Game: Three Easy Hacks

There is no one size fits all model to be a great lover. To be a truly great lover that stands out from all the rest, acquiring the skills to read, calibrate, then adapt to each lover’s body as a unique desire.  Because of diversity in both neural layout and the shape and size of anatomical structures, as well as habits and preferences, people with vulvas vary substantially in the way their genitals respond to stimulation. We are going to be getting into some specifics on how to stimulate the clitoris with three easy to master hacks, but first you need to understand a little clitoral anatomy. It is important to understand that the clitoris is more comparable to an iceberg than a small button. The small part of the clitoris that we see is actually the head of a much larger internal structure. The part you see is equivalent to the tip of the iceberg, and similar to an iceberg, the majority of the mound is beneath the surface. It actually splits into two larger bulbs, and extends down the walls of the vagina, increasing the surface area of stimulation, and potential for pleasure in the vulva owner. The majority of vulva owners feel the most pleasure when their clits are stimulated. Actually, 81.6% of women either require clitoral stimulation alongside penetration, or prefer clitoral stimulation by itself to reach orgasm.  (new clitoris diagram)

 

There are a lot of moving parts to the vulva, and it’s understandable if you are overwhelmed by all of the techniques that can be used to get your partner off. I want to give you three hacks that are specific to the clitoris, that will get moving in the right direction to get your partner there. 

  • THE CLIT CLOCK GAME – Imagine the clit has a clock on it, where the top point, closest to the belly button, is twelve, and the spot closest to the vaginal opening is six. Move around the clock, from the twelve (clit), to the six (vaginal opening), and back to the twelve again, going in a circle slowly  with a finger or toy, communicating the entire time about which spot feels good.   
  • PLEASURE CALIBRATION – Once you find the right spot, try different ways of touching it.  Try varying in pressure, friction, speed or angle, all the while seeing how receptive the person is to these different sensations.  Tell her to make a noise, squeeze your hand, or say something when it feels good. This way you are able to identify when and where it feels best. 
  • KEEP IT CONSISTENT-  One of the most common, and frustrating things that can be done to a vulva, is changing things up too much. Variation is not your friend in this instance.  Once you find what works, keep doing it! If what you are doing is getting them closer to orgasm, or peak arousal, do not change it up. You’ve found it. You don’t need a million different tricks, you just need to find the technique that is pleasurable,  and that builds towards orgasm for this particular body, and be consistent with it.  Let it continue to build up without adding too much variating,  and then eventually it will spill over the edge. Kenneth Play teaches sex hacks for fingering while pleasuring young woman

I want you to remember that when it comes to the variation of how people respond to pussy stimulation, communication and being receptive to adjusting is by far your most reliable technique. Don’t get attached to a certain method, rather pride yourself in your ability to adapt to each pussy you encounter. That is on of the strongest foundational concepts to master in order to hack your sex life. There are real life demonstrations of these techniques featured in Sex Hacker Pro. 

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  1. Where and how do you map a male? I see plenty of ideas, tips, trick, dos, donuts for women’s pleasure (which is more and more common place to cater to the ladies pleasure only). And nothing for the males! When are you sex educators going to realize there are actually TWO genders (unless your counting the lgbtqAI folks and are letting them have more information that male born folks) which I think is the next thing sex educators will try to do.

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