My Cock is Anal Friendly

I had the joy of being featured as part of The New York Post’s newest video “Show Me Your Junk”, where men address the myths and struggles of penis size.

This video has made me think a lot about how proud I am now of my average sized cock, but how I wasn’t always that way.

I used to be the kid who hid in the locker room and refused to take public showers, even though I was on the swim team. I was terrified of Asian penis stereotypes. Insecurity plagued me most of my life. I thought if you didn’t have a porn-star-sized penis you were unworthy of an epic sex life.

I felt like I could never live out my fantasy of going to a sex party because I would be laughed at for my penis size.

But then I finally went to a party in my late 20’s and was exposed to the sex positive community, where I learned that it’s more about genital compatibility than bigger-is-better.

Initially, I thought that if I got really good at sex I could compensate for being average-sized. But what I’ve come to realize is that I have nothing to compensate for. It’s more about compatibility and preferences. For some women my cock is a dream, for some women it’s not. And that goes for all penises. But my cock is the majority, not the minority. In fact, the men on either extreme end have the greater difficulties.

If you want to hear other men’s thoughts while we compared our penises, check out The New York Post video here.

Wondering about the title of this blog post? Over the years, I’ve discovered that my cock is quite anal friendly because for most people new to receiving anal the idea of fitting anything too thick can be pretty intimidating. I guess I lucked out on this one.

Side Note: As a sex educator, I get this question a LOT: how do I get my partner to have anal with me? My answer always: get good at everything else first! How do you do that? Check out my brand new courses here!

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