I was featured in an article for Thrillist featuring a story about a gangbang birthday gift for my friend’s girlfriend. It’s truly amazing to have male friends who I feel comfortable playing with. For all you heterosexual guys out there concerned about how gangbangs and group play affect your sexuality, let me say that it’s not at all about sexual orientation. That’s in your mind, and only you decide what turns you on. This was about working as a team to celebrate the pleasure of one woman, and it was incredible. We worked so well together, and our mutual respect for each other’s boundaries made for safe, fun, and pleasurable group play. And, of course, the parameters for every group activity are negotiated by the participants, so as long as all parties consent to the play and set up their own personal boundaries, there’s no reason why all men can’t have the experience I did!