The Top 3 Qualities of an Amazing Lover

Ah, the eternal question: what will make me the best lover? The sex advice industry is full of answers, some more legitimate than others. But let’s clear the air right away: the answer isn’t a steel erection, magical endurance, or a porn-start penis — as I say in my trailer, it’s more about confidence and … Read more

Hacienda featured on The Love Drive!

My colleague and amazing friend Lila, of horizontal with Lila, recently was a guest on The Love Drive Show to talk about intentional communities, sex parties, and non-monogamy — and she gave a shout out to my work too! Sex parties and the sex positive community can be somewhat intimidating when you first decide to … Read more

Thrillist Article About a Gangbang Birthday Gift (Featuring Tips by Yours Truly)

I was featured in an article for Thrillist featuring a story about a gangbang birthday gift for my friend’s girlfriend. It’s truly amazing to have male friends who I feel comfortable playing with. For all you heterosexual guys out there concerned about how gangbangs and group play affect your sexuality, let me say that it’s not at … Read more