Are Men Inherently Selfish in Bed? Lessons from Jordan Peterson

By:  Kenneth Play (as told to T.S.Farley) If there’s one thing we can all agree to in this current culture, it’s that men suck, right?  “Boo men!” and “Down with the patriarchy!” and “Off with their dicks!”, right?  Given that reality, when looking at the “orgasm gap” that exists today—ie, the discrepancy between how often … Read more

Smarter Hookups in the Time of COVID-19

   We wanted to write this guide because sexual pleasure is a right and a deep need, and because we believe that the best way to ensure safety is to offer realistic guidelines. Telling people not to have sex just doesn’t work. After decades of study of sex education that emphasizes abstinence only, we … Read more

One Bride, Two Grooms

Kenneth and Geronimo propose to Karen

I’m so excited to share with you all that I’m engaged — actually, co-engaged — with my now-fiance Karen, and my metamour Geronimo. We are in a polyamourous relationship, specifically a V-triad, meaning that Geronimo and I are a-sexual and a-romantic with each other, but both deeply in love with Karen. She said yes, and … Read more

Men’s Health: How I Acquired My Orgasmic Wisdom

Men’s Health talked with me about how I became Kenneth Play: Sex Hacker, in their newest article. It covers my career journey, how I came to teach sex skills, and shows how my personal transformation influenced my teaching style. Growing up as an awkward Asian immigrant with an average sized cock meant that I never … Read more