Smarter Hookups in the Time of COVID-19

We wanted to write this guide because sexual pleasure is a right and a deep need, and because we believe that the best way to ensure safety is to offer realistic guidelines. Telling people not to have sex just doesn’t work. After decades of study of sex education that emphasizes abstinence only, we know that … Read more

One Bride, Two Grooms

Kenneth and Geronimo propose to Karen

I’m so excited to share with you all that I’m engaged — actually, co-engaged — with my now-fiance Karen, and my metamour Geronimo. We are in a polyamourous relationship, specifically a V-triad, meaning that Geronimo and I are a-sexual and a-romantic with each other, but both deeply in love with Karen. She said yes, and … Read more

The 1st Ever World Love Summit!

Imagine walking into your next Swinger Party with complete confidence that the night is going to go great! Everyone you talk to you get along with. You have more ‘options’ then you’ve ever had before. Even your partner is thanking you for crafting such a magical experience that you know will strengthen your relationship. Those … Read more

Hacienda featured on The Love Drive!

My colleague and amazing friend Lila, of horizontal with Lila, recently was a guest on The Love Drive Show to talk about intentional communities, sex parties, and non-monogamy — and she gave a shout out to my work too! Sex parties and the sex positive community can be somewhat intimidating when you first decide to … Read more