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How to Talk Dirty (and avoid awkwardness)

HuffPost has started an amazing new series that I'm so excited for!! Sex Ed for Grown-Ups will tackle everything you didn’t learn about sex in school — beyond the birds and the bees. And I'm even more excited to be featured in one of their…
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Sex Geek Summer Camp

It's been quite a journey giving up a successful fitness education career and diving into sex education professionally. Looking back at 2014, I was full of hesitation and fear of a life-altering career choice. But I can whole-heartedly say that…
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Ejaculation Etiquette

Sexual communication is about more than just arousal and preferences -- sometimes it's also about the climax experience. Alex Manley and I recently talked about this often overlooked topic for Ask Men's article Ejaculation Etiquette: Where…
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5 Tips For Pleasing People With Vulvas

Regardless of gender, all of us our robbed of a comprehensive sex education, especially around pleasure. That's why I decided to turn the "elusive" topic of female pleasure into practical sex education courses and advice, that people could take…
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Sex Positions to be a Rim Job Pro

I get a lot of questions about anal play. Like, a lot. And besides recommending that you get good at everything else first, my second piece of top advice is that you follow the ranks of anal play and prep: rub, lick, finger, dick. Rub the outside…
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The Only 3 Sex Toys to Use, According to an Aficionado

I take great pride in the amount of sex toys I've tested and love, but there is one man who's even more passionate about toys than me: my friend Grant Stoddard. Grant has been attending my workshops and writing about me for a while now, and…
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The 1st Ever World Love Summit!

Imagine walking into your next Swinger Party with complete confidence that the night is going to go great!Everyone you talk to you get along with. You have more ‘options’ then you’ve ever had before. Even your partner is thanking you…
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Can We Learn From Porn?

The prevalence of porn and its effect on how we view sexuality as a society has always been a hot topic, and I don’t think it’s going anywhere anytime soon.But you know what else isn’t going anywhere? Porn.The porn industry is always…
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Post-Sex Hacks You Don't Want To Skip

I'm loving this article on Vice I was quoted in about how the concept of aftercare applies to vanilla sex as much as it applies to kink scenes!For those who might not know, aftercare is an essential practice for the kink community to help…
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How Do I Get My Girlfriend To Do Anal?

Time Out New York just featured me and some other awesome sex-positive people in New York City for our work!I talk a bit about my Squirting PlayLab What’s the most in-demand class you teach? The most popular one I host focuses on female…