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How to Talk Dirty (and avoid awkwardness)

HuffPost has started an amazing new series that I'm so excited for!! Sex Ed for Grown-Ups will tackle everything you didn’t learn about sex in school — beyond the birds and the bees. And I'm even more excited to be featured in one of their…
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Ejaculation Etiquette

Sexual communication is about more than just arousal and preferences -- sometimes it's also about the climax experience. Alex Manley and I recently talked about this often overlooked topic for Ask Men's article Ejaculation Etiquette: Where…
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5 Tips For Pleasing People With Vulvas

Regardless of gender, all of us our robbed of a comprehensive sex education, especially around pleasure. That's why I decided to turn the "elusive" topic of female pleasure into practical sex education courses and advice, that people could take…
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The Only 3 Sex Toys to Use, According to an Aficionado

I take great pride in the amount of sex toys I've tested and love, but there is one man who's even more passionate about toys than me: my friend Grant Stoddard. Grant has been attending my workshops and writing about me for a while now, and…
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The 1st Ever World Love Summit!

Imagine walking into your next Swinger Party with complete confidence that the night is going to go great!Everyone you talk to you get along with. You have more ‘options’ then you’ve ever had before. Even your partner is thanking you…
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Can We Learn From Porn?

The prevalence of porn and its effect on how we view sexuality as a society has always been a hot topic, and I don’t think it’s going anywhere anytime soon.But you know what else isn’t going anywhere? Porn.The porn industry is always…
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Post-Sex Hacks You Don't Want To Skip

I'm loving this article on Vice I was quoted in about how the concept of aftercare applies to vanilla sex as much as it applies to kink scenes!For those who might not know, aftercare is an essential practice for the kink community to help…