It’s finally the Fourth of July— loud explosive fireworks and bright, beautiful colors of assorted flares fill the summer air, leaving you with feelings of thrill and elation. These excitements aren’t just limited to the eyes and ears, however. The stimulation of fireworks electrifies your parasympathetic nervous system, the root of your sexual arousal, as … Read more
HuffPost has started an amazing new series that I’m so excited for!! Sex Ed for Grown-Ups will tackle everything you didn’t learn about sex in school — beyond the birds and the bees. And I’m even more excited to be featured in one of their first articles to announce the new series — “How To Talk … Read more
Sexual communication is about more than just arousal and preferences — sometimes it’s also about the climax experience. Alex Manley and I recently talked about this often overlooked topic for Ask Men’s article Ejaculation Etiquette: Where to Cum and What to Do After. Now, of course, if you’re using a condom with your sexual partner, this … Read more
Regardless of gender, all of us our robbed of a comprehensive sex education, especially around pleasure. That’s why I decided to turn the “elusive” topic of female pleasure into practical sex education courses and advice, that people could take action on immediately. Only one in four cisgender women regularly report orgasming during penetrative intercourse, but we … Read more
I take great pride in the amount of sex toys I’ve tested and love, but there is one man who’s even more passionate about toys than me: my friend Grant Stoddard. Grant has been attending my workshops and writing about me for a while now, and that coupled with his love of trying new things … Read more
Imagine walking into your next Swinger Party with complete confidence that the night is going to go great! Everyone you talk to you get along with. You have more ‘options’ then you’ve ever had before. Even your partner is thanking you for crafting such a magical experience that you know will strengthen your relationship. Those … Read more
The prevalence of porn and its effect on how we view sexuality as a society has always been a hot topic, and I don’t think it’s going anywhere anytime soon. But you know what else isn’t going anywhere? Porn. The porn industry is always on the cutting edge of technology, and I think that, as … Read more
I’m loving this article on Vice I was quoted in about how the concept of aftercare applies to vanilla sex as much as it applies to kink scenes! For those who might not know, aftercare is an essential practice for the kink community to help facilitate a “soft landing” after an intense sexual experience. People … Read more