Sex Hacks for All! featured in Hustler Magazine by T.S. Farley

You want to know the truth of why I do what I do? Why I teach explicit sex education? And more specifically why I cater towards cis straight men to please cis straight women? Because it had never been done before and when I had questions about how to please women I was not in … Read more

Epic Romantic Sex Hack (Free Tutorial on Pornhub)

On this Valentine’s Day I want to embody the art of giving pleasure. In our world of screens, we don’t often spend intentional, whole-heartedly connected time with the people we love. We poke fun at memes like “forget flowers, find my G-spot”, but people really do value effort and being seen. I want to help … Read more

#41 of the Best Sex Advice Blogs!

KP blog #41 on list of top 50 sex advice blogs

I recently had the honor of this blog being listed in the Top 50 Sex Advice Blogs of 2019! I’m so glad that people enjoy the advice I give and stories I tell here, especially since many of them are important to me too.  In case you’re new to my site, or you don’t often … Read more

Tips n’ Tricks for Lickin’ Clits!

Aka, how I starred in my first porn film I’m probably the most unlikely porn star. Average sized cock, Asian immigrant, a sex nerd / hacker / educator. But as of today’s film release, I’ve starred in a porno. Okay, to be fair, I’m not talking, like, Brazzers. The film that was released today, “Tips … Read more

The Science Behind Common Roleplaying Scenarios

Have you ever felt intrigued by living out a fantasy or experiencing a shift in dynamics with your partner? While some may feel these interests are taboo, the desire to roleplay in the bedroom is a very common and healthy one. It taps into instincts through the experience of “safe danger”: the exciting physiological reaction … Read more