Epic Romantic Sex Hack (Free Tutorial on Pornhub)

a photo of Kenneth performing the Goddess Bath ritual

On this Valentine’s Day I want to embody the art of giving pleasure. In our world of screens, we don’t often spend intentional, whole-heartedly connected time with the people we love. We poke fun at memes like “forget flowers, find my G-spot”, but people really do value effort and being seen. I want to help you bring all of that into a sensual, spellbinding, pampering experience for your lover.   My Valentine’s present to you … Read more

#41 of the Best Sex Advice Blogs!

KP blog #41 on list of top 50 sex advice blogs

I recently had the honor of this blog being listed in the Top 50 Sex Advice Blogs of 2019! I’m so glad that people enjoy the advice I give and stories I tell here, especially since many of them are important to me too.  In case you’re new to my site, or you don’t often check out the Kenneth Play blog, here are my 5 most popular blog posts, in honor of the top 50 … Read more

Tips n’ Tricks for Lickin’ Clits!

Aka, how I starred in my first porn film I’m probably the most unlikely porn star. Average sized cock, Asian immigrant, a sex nerd / hacker / educator. But as of today’s film release, I’ve starred in a porno. Okay, to be fair, I’m not talking, like, Brazzers. The film that was released today, “Tips n’ Tricks for Lickin’ Clits”, is an Erika Lust film directed by Reed Amber and Florence Barkway, of Come Curious. … Read more

The Science Behind Common Roleplaying Scenarios

Have you ever felt intrigued by living out a fantasy or experiencing a shift in dynamics with your partner? While some may feel these interests are taboo, the desire to roleplay in the bedroom is a very common and healthy one. It taps into instincts through the experience of “safe danger”: the exciting physiological reaction to fear (adrenaline rush, increased heart rate, intense focus) with no real danger present. Think of it like a rollercoaster … Read more

The Patriotic Power of Sex and Fireworks

sex and fireworks

It’s finally the Fourth of July— loud explosive fireworks and bright, beautiful colors of assorted flares fill the summer air, leaving you with feelings of thrill and elation. These excitements aren’t just limited to the eyes and ears, however. The stimulation of fireworks electrifies your parasympathetic nervous system, the root of your sexual arousal, as well as your sympathetic nervous system, which is in charge of your orgasm. Do you know what that means? Sex– … Read more