The Top 3 Qualities of an Amazing Lover

Ah, the eternal question: what will make me the best lover? The sex advice industry is full of answers, some more legitimate than others. But let’s clear the air right away: the answer isn’t a steel erection, magical endurance, or a porn-start penis — as I say in my trailer, it’s more about confidence and … Read more

Hacienda featured on The Love Drive!

My colleague and amazing friend Lila, of horizontal with Lila, recently was a guest on The Love Drive Show to talk about intentional communities, sex parties, and non-monogamy — and she gave a shout out to my work too! Sex parties and the sex positive community can be somewhat intimidating when you first decide to … Read more

Grant Goes on a Mission to Enjoy Shower Sex

Water pouring over skin, hot steam filling the room, massaging touch through soap and suds to find all the right buttons… There’s a lot of reasons why shower sex is my favorite, but the reason I like it most is that it becomes a full sensory experience. The sound and feel of the water, the … Read more

Kenneth Talks with Tonic about the Elusive Squirt!

Kenneth recently chatted with Tonic writer Grant Stoddard about the real fountains of Bellagio — squirting. After 15 years of writing about sex, Grant had always wanted to master the skills to bring his partner’s to ejaculation, and finally did after he walked into Kenneth’s playlab. Check out the article to hear Grant’s experience witnessing … Read more