What’s Your Love(making) Language?

In my work as a sex coach, I’ve found that a lot of people struggle to figure out what they want. They have no frame of reference to even begin answering that question. There are so many options when it comes to sex, it can be hard to pinpoint what exactly appeals to you.
So that’s why I was so excited when I found the Erotic Blueprints framework, designed by my sex educator role model, Miss Jaiya.

I met Jaiya at the Back to the Body retreat. I love her work. She is one of the most successful sex educators in the industry right now. And as you may know, I’m obsessed with sex education, so I was instantly intrigued by her online curriculum structure.

Have you heard of “love languages”? Erotic Blueprints are like love languages for sex. They give you a great starting point to think about what you want and how to communicate that to partners. You take a quiz to find your own type and what the benefits and challenges are that go along with your blueprint.
Of course I took this quiz immediately, and discovered that I’m a shapeshifter. That means that I adapt to the needs and desires of my partners, and I can be any of the other types for them. As soon as I got the result, I felt that it fit me perfectly. But one of the cons of being a shapeshifter is that I have a tendency to focus on other people’s needs rather than on my own desires and wants. I figure that if I found this quiz insightful, my fans and clients might get the same benefit out of it!
I want to invite all of you to take the Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough Course with me. My goal is to learn alongside my fans, so that we can hack our sex lives together. In addition to the course itself and the communities that Jaiya is building for participants, any of my fans who sign up will also get exclusive access to a Q&A livestream with me during the course, where we can talk about what we’ve learned and any questions that come up.
I hope you’ll take this step with me! Start by taking the quiz here.